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GTKY: DH and I/Proposal Story

DH and I met when I was 15 and he was 18 in the church youth group. We dated for just shy of 7 years before we got married, and we both finished high school and undergrad college before we tied the knot. We lived about 15 minutes from each other (both with our parents) for the first three years, and then I moved 3 ½ hours away from him to go to college for three years. After I finished undergrad, I moved home, and we got married 9 months later.

DH is a health inspector (inspects and gives scores to restaurants), but he also does soil analysis and permits for septic tanks. I am a nurse practitioner, but I’m still working as a medical oncology RN until I start my NP job in January.

 Proposal story:

In Jan 2009 I accidently found the receipt for my engagement ring in DH’s jacket pocket. I couldn’t wait for him to propose! The weekend of Feb 6-8, 2009 DH came to visit me at college. For some reason, I just knew that he came to see me because he was going to propose! He got there on Friday (I was still in my RN clinical shift in the NICU), so he made me dinner, and then we went to see a movie. 

Saturday morning we got up, and we made plans to go to a nature center where they rehab injured animals, and they have walking trails and ponds. We walked around for a while, and then decided to sit on a bench looking over one of the ponds where some ducks were swimming. We were just sitting there talking about how pretty it was, and DH tells me that he loves me. I, of course, tell him that I love him too. He said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, and I said “Really??!?!?!”. Then he moved from sitting on the bench to down on one knee, pulled out the ring, and asked if I would marry him. I replied with “are you shitting me?”, and he got this strange look on his face and told me that was not shitting me, and then I said yes and started crying. We then left the nature center, went back to my dorm, and watched Cars. We went to dinner that evening at an awesome Greek restaurant, and called everyone to let them know that we were engaged!

Married 2-20-10        Dx PCOS 1-2013         Metformin 500mg 3x/day  Will Start TTC Aug. 2015

Re: GTKY: DH and I/Proposal Story

  • I love that even though you knew it was coming, you still had a great reaction. :)
  • Ha! Love the are you shitting me!
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  • Ha- cute proposal story!

    Both of your jobs sound super interesting.  Does his job stop you from eating out?
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    "I DO NOT love that you think so many things revolve around you.  I know you're bitter.  I get it.  But I'm over your feelings." The best person on the internet ever!
  • @seahorse01‌ YES! It does stop him/us from eating out a lot. He tells me so many gross stories of things he sees while inspecting restaurants. Sometimes we will go somewhere to eat, and he will look at me with big eyes and say "You want to go eat somewhere else?". That's when I know he has seen a big violation of some kind!
    Married 2-20-10        Dx PCOS 1-2013         Metformin 500mg 3x/day  Will Start TTC Aug. 2015
  • Ack!!!  I like living in the dark about stuff like that!  ha. Not really, but kind of.
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    "I DO NOT love that you think so many things revolve around you.  I know you're bitter.  I get it.  But I'm over your feelings." The best person on the internet ever!
  • I feel the same way about it! I know bad stuff happens in restaurants, but I try to ignore it, unless it is obvious.
    Married 2-20-10        Dx PCOS 1-2013         Metformin 500mg 3x/day  Will Start TTC Aug. 2015
  • Here are some pics of DH and I. The first is when we were 16 and 19. The second is from our honeymoon (22 and 25).
    Married 2-20-10        Dx PCOS 1-2013         Metformin 500mg 3x/day  Will Start TTC Aug. 2015
  • Yes he knows. I think I told him the day after he proposed!
    Married 2-20-10        Dx PCOS 1-2013         Metformin 500mg 3x/day  Will Start TTC Aug. 2015
  • Yay, another NP! :) Is your new job as an NP going to be in oncology, too? 

    My mom was a nurse in oncology for years. Definitely not a job I could do, so I commend you for being so strong!


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • I really wanted to find an NP job in Oncology, but more than that, I wanted a good home/work balance. I will be working in a Physical Medicine practice (orthopedic and neurologic assessments and muscle, joint, and nerve injections). It is outpatient, and I don't have to do any inpatient rounding! Those elements were more important to me than being in Oncology.
    Married 2-20-10        Dx PCOS 1-2013         Metformin 500mg 3x/day  Will Start TTC Aug. 2015
  • Haha I love your reaction! :)

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