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Hi Guys! I think we forgot to do this this month!
October
1. How good were you at keeping your money goals for this month?
2. What did you do differently this month that helped?
3. What were your greatest achievements?
4. What were your biggest downfalls?
November
1. What are your goals for this month?
2. What do you plan to do differently to get to your goal?
3. What area of your budget do you want to work on this month, and how do you plan to do that?
Re: Oct/Nov Goals
2. I was pretty strict with us and tried to say no to a lot of social events.
3. I think H is getting budget fatigue. He really wants to go out, buy video games, etc. and though he'll stick to the budget we write I often end up feeling like the bad guy and giving in to things like using up fun budget before payday.
November
1. Keep building our e-fund by $100 a paycheck and spend less on going out with friends.
2. The saving will be automatic, but the spending less fun money is SO tough for us. I'm not sure how to fix it except willpower. I've thought of trying the envelope method and it wasn't well recieved, but maybe it's time to revisit that.
3. See above-we NEED to spend less on fun/entertainment.
Anyways- October- we were decent at keeping our goals. It still seemed like we were bleeding money all month, but when I actually sat down and looked at our savings spreadsheet at the end of the month we didn't do too bad. We ended up about even between savings and what we took out of other savings funds.
2. We finally got back into using our spreadsheet to keep track. Also helpful was the fact that we had found a good place to keep our envelopes so I was able to grab the one I wanted before running to the store.
3. Greatest achievement is probably starting my new business. It's direct sales so not as exciting as some of the entrepreneurs on this board but still pretty exciting for me. And if you include free product I earned I actually made a profit last month too! So that's pretty amazing.
4. Hmmm dh trying to finish the media room- he has been trying to keep it reasonable but what a money suck. So many little things we didn't think to plan for- like even though we had the speakers we need speaker mounts and additional cables, etc.
November!!
1. Goals for this month, start decorating, sell a ton of the product I just bought for craft fairs, and overall try to slow down and enjoy the family that will be coming in 2 weeks. Mm wise- make sure we are using the envelops for every purchase!
2. For the business I'm getting out for a lot of events, craft fairs and parties this month which will be a blast. I'm trying to book craft fairs at harvest festivals so ds can come with and run around and play with dh so even though I'm working it's still a lot of fun. Personal, probably just remember to use the envelops. We always go astray at Black Friday and hopefully we will keep on our budget this year.
3. I'm with wulfgar on this- I need to eat more lunches at home. I have been going out with friends a lot or picking up lunch on the way home from my mommies group and I need to quit doing that. It's always my fun money for the month, but it's kind of a crappy way to spend almost all of your fun money.
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Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
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