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GTKY: H and me

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edited November 2014 in Getting Pregnant
I am Sam, H is Ted. I just turned 31 earlier this month, Ted is 33. We grew up in the same town and went to the same high school in the Southwest suburbs of Chicago. We have a ton of friends in common, but somehow we never met. I moved away from my hometown halfway though my junior year of high school and didn't move back until after college. We met through one of those mutual friends in the summer of 2006 over drinks one night to celebrate my moving back. Neither one of us was looking for a relationship, and to be quite honest, we wanted nothing to do with each other. In December of that year, my friends and I went to go see a band play and I invited everyone I knew. Ted came along with a group of those friends. After a few (OK way, way) too many Miller Lites, and singing along to “Jesse's Girl” Ted asked me on a date the following week. He missed his train on said date, so he had to spend the night on the couch in my apartment. Instead of getting up early to catch a commuter train, we spent the morning nursing hangovers and have been together ever since. One missed train and approximately one billion singalongs later, here we are.

We've been through a lot in the last 8 years. Had it not been for us being “forced” to spend time with each other because of our close mutual friend, we never would've found each other. I'm sure of that. We're quite the unlikely pair. We're lucky we had “Jesse's Girl” because all we really have in common is our taste in music. But, we compliment each other nicely and we provide each other balance in ways that wouldn't be possible if we were more alike. We have our difficulties finding compromise sometimes, since we generally want exact opposite things, but we have found a way to navigate our differences in a way that works for us (most of the time).


ETA: grammar fixes


Re: GTKY: H and me

  • Cute story! Thanks for sharing! 


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • Jim and I are opposites in almost every way too. Sometimes it just works! :)

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    Baby Boy born 5.3.15


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