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3T Check in

**note: I may or may not post this next week, depending on whether or not I remember! We have multiple Thanksgivings that day so I may forget. If anyone else feels the need to post it if I forget, feel free! :) **

 

If you have any changes to this list, wish to be removed, added, or have graduated (yay!), please shoot me a PM. 

FYI: We don't want to exclude people, but this is a check in for ladies who are unfortunately having trouble trying to conceive (TTTC = 3T). If you've been trying for more than a year and/or have been diagnosed with any form of infertility OR are now pursuing adoption OR have decided to remain childless following a 3T journey, you are welcome to join us. 

 Updates: Ok ladies... where are we at this week? Testing, Procedures, Appointments, Adoption updates, Life updates? What's going on, etc. Let's here all about it!!

 

QOTW: Do you have any Thanksgiving traditions?

 

FFC/AW of the Week (no rules):

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3T

- arj14 - TTC since August 2013, DX PCOS 7/14, trying diet changes while saving up for any future treatment. 

- amandaf6383: TTC since July 2012. DX: PCOS. On Metformin. Clomid & getting healthy before pursuing IUI/IVF

- BruinsBabe33: my body hates me ttc#2 officially since April 2014, anovulatory long irregular cycles

-Flamingo86: TTC since July 2012, 4 losses. Dx: MTHFR, clotting issues, otherwise unexplained. Considering adoption.

-FutureMrsWright2012: NTNP since 8/2010. TTC since 3/2012. Dx DOR, poss. clotting issues. IUI + Clomid x 2 = BFN. IVF #1 = BFP; loss of our baby boy at 18 weeks. Getting mind and body ready for probable IVF#2 in 2015

-IloveRedVino: DX:Primary dx PCOS, secondary dx unexplained infertility. One stillbirth, one miscarriage, two failed IVF cycles. Exploring new options

-islandmonkey8 - TTC 22+ months, DH perfect, me unexplained annovulatory cycles. After 3 IUIs, one second tri loss, moving on to IVF

-nfp147: No longer actively TTC but still amazing support to 3T family and deeply loved.

-OceanHutt: TTC unofficially since 2011, officially since 2012. DX MFI. Meeting with RE for IVF. Completing testing and getting healthy prior to treatment.

-poppies717 - TTC #1 since Feb. '12; dx - unexplained; After two rounds of IVF and one loss, we are now pursuing DIA

-rccola1981: Dx endometriosis, mild pcos and male factor. Moving towards foster-adopt.

-Rockabye: TTC since Dec 2008, DX: PCOS with no ovulation at all.  Failed Clomid/IUI and Injectable/IUI cycles. Moving to combination Femara/Bravelle cycle Dec 2014.

-Seahorsey: TTC since October 2008, DX:Unexplained IF with failed IUIs and IVFs

-Sewilson33 - TTC since Dec. 2012; SA & BW came back great; Next step: HSG & RE

-Xan921: TTC since March 2012. DX irregular and anovulatory cycles; also DX with Complex Endometrial Hyperplasia.

-Ystaalenburg: TTC since February 2012 DX: PCOS @ 16; Currently taking break after 2 failed treatment cycles.

In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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Re: 3T Check in

  • Great update @RockABye‌!
    I'm so excited for you and have everything crossed that this works!





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • @RockABye - Glad to hear your baseline U/S went well and you have so many follies ready! FX for a great cycle!

    @IslandMonkey8 - Stimming sucks, but FX for lots of great follies! Sorry your "nurse" isn't being very helpful with really telling you what's going on, but at least the U/S tech is reassuring. When do you have to head in again?

    *LR*

    AFM - Had D&C this AM, and doc said she "got a lot out". I guess my body just was not accepting not being pregnant anymore. Hopefully, this does the trick, and I can finally start to heal physically. Emotionally was a bit of a struggle. As I was getting knocked out, one of the nurses told me to think of something nice to dream about. Of course, my mind went straight to holding my little boy in my arms, and I started crying as I fell asleep. Then, once I woke up, I was immediately back in tears again. So awful. Thankfully, they let my H back, which always helps calm me down and pull me out of that deep cavern of sadness. Now, I'm at home and snuggled up with DH, the fur babies, and a heating pad. 

    QOTW - No traditions. We kind of float around between friends and family each year. This year, we're planning to celebrate with our close friends. 



    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • I am still waiting for my period. I finished the last of my Provera last night and will hopefully start to bleed in the next week. 

    Our Thanksgiving tradition is to get together with my side of the family and have a huge feast. Thanksgiving is bigger holiday than Christmas for my family and it's awesome. My DH and I both look forward to it every year.
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    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Maternity tickers
    J & J 10.21.06 
    BFP #1 02.13.12 
    We said goodbye to our sweet baby on 03.16.12. 
    BFP #2 07.07.12, due 3.18.13. Evelyn was born on 3.15.13!
    BFP #3 07.28.14
    We said goodbye to our triplets on 09.25.14.
    BFP #4 05.01.15, due 01.09.16
  • @futuremrswright - first, big huge ((hugs)). I hope you can start to heal now. Second, so far I have been in for monitoring every day since Monday. I assume they'll have me in again in the morning, otherwise definitely Saturday.
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • @RockABye‌ eeeek! I'm so excited for you! Crossing everything!

    @islandmonkey8‌ I'm sorry the nurse isn't a great communicator and that this is being really rough on you physically.

    @FutureMrsWright2012‌ sending lots of love your way, dear.

    QOTW: just egg nog and Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade.
  • @ewenice83 - I hope AF shows her face very soon!
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
    image
    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • @bruinsbabe33 - are you still waiting on a referral? I'd write one for you if it was legal!
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
    image
    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • Yup. I'm going to see my doctor on the 26th, so hopefully she won't be as crazy in person.
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    QOTW: just egg nog and Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade.

    I love that parade, but it annoys DH... He always tries to change it to pre-football stuff, so I have to threaten to stop cooking to get him to change it back. :)


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • @FutureMrsWright2012 - Big hugs, my dear. 
    @islandmonkey8 - HOORAY for multiple follicles! I hope the nurse gets her head out of her butt and starts giving you some answers. I am so hopeful for a great retrieval.
    @BruinsBabe33 - I wish I could write you a referral, too. C'mon 26th!
    @RockABye - FX for you!!!!!!!!
    @Ewenice83 - I hope AF comes soon so you can move forward.

    Update: Well, nothing, now. Thank you for all the love. We'll be finishing up our video this weekend and will probably end up paying a late fee for sending it out on Monday instead of Saturday, but whatever. We are super excited and surprised at how much support we received from our FB post. I did get a message from the wife of DH's best friend (remember the one who said about our infertility that we "needed something to go wrong" in our life?) telling me how excited she was for us and that she really missed seeing us. I responded with a curt "Thanks" and left it at that. Don't be a horrific person when we're going through a crisis and then turn around and be all sweet when we have exciting stuff to share. Friendship doesn't work like that. 

    QOTW: We have no traditions for Thanksgiving. I end up hating the holiday because of all the drama about whose house we're going to. My parents are just having my sister over, and they're thinking about going out for Chinese. We'll be with ILs at a huge gathering. I feel awful, but we can't do both because of the timing and distance. We're spending Christmas with my family though.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • @poppies717 you handled that a lot better than I would have. I'm so excited for you guys! Eek!

    @iloveredvino still sending a million loves.
  • @ILoveRedVino‌ ... YAY! Thinking about you! FX for continued good betas!


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • I have been checking in daily but mobile is making me crazy....I cant stand the way that i cant log in on mobile :(
     
    SO much love to you girls! <3

    Not much going on still fighting the weight loss fight....DH went to see the RE's urologist today who wants him to do another SA and freeze before his next January appointment.

    No real traditions unfortunately...christmas is more our thing :)
    Ashley & Jeremy 10/10/10

    Getting fit for IVF! :) (add another 20lbs and you have my total weight lost! :) )

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