October 2012 Weddings
mana8503
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**Update** Family
Figured I'd try to update in one post from the last time I asked for T&Ps. I know I've posted parts in different WTF and confession posts. Let's see if E stays asleep long enough to get it out.
Re: My niece on drugs: few days after my sister texted my mom my niece was on heroin (a diversion to the trailer foreclosure) my niece called my mom to tell her no she wasn't on heroin. That she was using rx drugs, but stopped and *only* smokes pot. I guess somehow my niece got my sister's phone and saw the texts. My mom said she didn't know who to believe, but they weren't giving money to either one of them for any reason. My niece has always been my mom's little informant. When it's about her mom, she's usually pretty truthful.
Re: foreclosure - I have no idea what's going on with that. My sister said she took care of it and is still making payments. WHY my mom trust her IDK, but after what happened recently, I'm going to call and verify this. My sister did get evicted but said it was from not paying lot rent, not the mortgage. But that just seems fishy to me.
Now the new drama... My sister has had my dad's truck FOREVER. On and off for 4-5 years (since he retired). Since she got evicted she's been living with her ex at his parents house. Even though my parents offered her to live with them. My dad liked to check that house and her work for his truck, but hasn't seen it in a while. Finally my mom texted her they wanted it back, esp since she wasn't talking to them at all. Sister never responded.
My niece let it slip that the ex got pulled over in it - DUI, driving without a license and drugs while we were in NC. My mom got tired of being ignored and called the ex's mom. Ex's mom said she'd talk to my sister when they got home. My sister texted my mom from a new number telling her to not talk to his mom. My mom said she'll talk to whomever she wants... my sister then started about how awful my parents are, and they don't care she's homeless and only cares about material things. I think she's told people so many lies, she's believing them herself. My mom was fixing up the guest room for her and everything. Sister said they were fixing scratches on the truck and then she'll give it back.
The next day, ex's mom called again. They told her they (sister and ex) went and talked to my parents and told them the truck was impounded. Um, no they didn't. And mom told her that. Ex's mom was HOT. So since I was there, I called the local state police barracks. Yup, they had the truck. The trooper called me back yesterday and said they found stuff that was of "health concern" and took it back to get a search warrant. That it was cleared now and my dad could get it. The reason they didn't call my parents was because my sister told them not to. Seriously?! Call the freaking owners of the car!
My niece let it slip their shed caught fire a while back because they were trying to cook meth, so I kind of thought it had to do with that. Yup - they told my parents when they got the truck today that they suspected he was cooking meth IN THE TRUCK! OMG I'm vivid. I don't even want my parents in there, ever. They took the stuff for evidence, but still, so many poisonous gases are released.
If I see my sister it'll be too soon and I might need bail money. She's had so many times to get help, straighten out her life but no, she'd rather be a f$%^ up. I don't want my kid around her, ever.
Re: **Update** Family
As for the meth cooking, maybe your parents can sell the truck so they won't be exposed to all of those harmful gases.
Praying for your family!
Now the ex's parents found out about the meth and kicked them out... And of course sister is blaming my parents for that too.