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Thought I would get us all started!
November
1. How good were you at keeping your money goals for this month?
2. What did you do differently this month that helped?
3. What were your greatest achievements?
4. What were your biggest downfalls?
December
1. What are your goals for this month?
2. What do you plan to do differently to get to your goal?
3. What area of your budget do you want to work on this month, and how do you plan to do that?

Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
Re: November/December Goals
November
4. What were your downfalls? Thanksgiving break. All the teachers like to hang out and drink at a local place that is pretty pricey. We blew $75 on dinner and drinks but it was worth it.
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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Not good. Didn't put anything into savings, with exception to retirement.
Everything did more "hurt" than it did help.
I did pay off my car. YAY!!!!!!!!!!! And we got caught up after a month of vacations and home projects.
Home projects. I always say that we will do the project a little bit at a time, then I get anxious and we finish it all in one weekend.. leading to huge spending at once.
Put $500 into general savings.
Hopefully pick up some more dog sitting opportunities.
Should be fewer home projects and vacations, and it will therefore be a better month.
@gdaisy09: I'm paying off my CC before interest, thankfully I've adjusted my budget to cash flow those purchases. The $100 a pay check I take out (bi-weekly so $200 per month) goes towards any fun money, eating out, clothes, small grocery trips, household items, etc. so it's really not much in grand scheme.
I'm doing much better than I was! And no longer carrying a balance on my CCs, just need to get my spending in check on them so I don't have to cash flow them. This past month was difficult with a vacation and buying Christmas gifts. H also owes me $400 that I put on my CC for cash back so that will take a big chunk away too.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
@brij2006 This is my problem exactly, I spend mindlessly with credit cards versus using cash which is why I really need to stick to taking my allowance out in cash and not using my cards. I used to carry a balance on my card, a ridiculous one at the that, but I got myself out of that hole so now I'm trying to make sure I don't get back to that point. I have started using them for monthly bills as long as it doesn't incur a fee and that's worked out pretty well.
I had a situation last month where I didn't realize the bill was due 1 day before pay day instead of the day after like I was tracking so it helped a lot to just put it on my CC and pay it off immediately the next day. I won't make a habit of that, but it was helpful in that case. I didn't want to dip into savings for a $40 bill.
@hoffse You do a great job at managing your CC and points/rewards, I'm hoping to get to that place eventually, I'd hate to get back into a situation where I carry a balance/ pay interest when I just got myself out of that hole a few months ago. It's a work in progress!
@gdaisy09:Thanks for the advice! $200 per month works best for me considering it covers eating out, groceries, household items, and pet expenses, etc. My H and I don't combine finances so I'm not sure how he budgets his personal money. And not struggling to pay CC's just need to stop spending mindlessly, everything is cash flowed to have them paid off without interest/carrying a balance, so I'm good.
I'll just be sure to take out cash for my Dec allowance, which I failed to do in Nov.