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Early GTKY: Something real

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edited December 2014 in Getting Pregnant
I'm posting my GTKY a day early. I can't Nest at work, and I have no clue what time I'll be home tomorrow. Enjoy!

During my senior year of high school, I saw appointments on the family calendar for my dad at a urologist. Several appointments. I was really nervous, and my parents told me they didn't want to tell us anything until they had answers. My dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer and underwent (at the time) an experimental procedure. It's now a pretty standard treatment. My dad's case was fairly easy compared to other stories I've heard and seen, but it profoundly changed our family and the way I live my life. My dad, my superhero, the Ol' Walrus, had cancer. It shattered my naiveté. 

My dad started to do everything he wanted to do. He pretty much embodied that country song "Live Like You Were Dying" even though he had won his battle. He told my sisters and me that we should take advantage of any and every opportunity we have. For us, this meant seeing everything we wanted to. My sister studied abroad. I started traveling. My parents haven taken tons of amazing vacations. They bought a RV. They take extended weekends at the seashore. It sounds pretty normal on paper (or a screen in this case), but we were never like that. My parents lived paycheck to paycheck when we were kids, so traveling around Europe was never on my radar. Hell, I still haven't been to Disney. My dad's motto is "Shrouds have no pockets," and it's definitely impacted how I live. I feel fortunate to have the opportunities I have had, and I really owe this attitude to my dad.

**Poof**
Enjoy this picture of my dad's hero, the 26th US President
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TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
3T<3

Re: Early GTKY: Something real

  • My dad had prostate cancer too. Cancer sucks and is always scary. I'm glad he is ok.
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • I am happy that such a horrible situation has brought such adventure to your lives.
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • I love that picture. Your dad seems like an awesome dude.
    Married 2011.
    Baby Boy 2015.
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