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This is more on the side of thinking out loud, but I would like to know what you would do.
I bought a brand new car in 2013, more than I should have paid for, but being stupid with money I bought it anyways. I'm able to make the payments just fine and am dealing with the mistake since I love my car. A thought popped into my head about selling the car for something that has more room, still great gas mileage, and not that old. The problem I have is that I still owe a lot more than its value and with our family trying to do a modified DR plan, we don't have much money to put down on another vehicle. How bad would it be to trade in my car and have a smaller loan to cover the remainder of both cars? I still have almost 5 years to pay on my current car (I know, stupid mistake!!) and the payment is already high itself.
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TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

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TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
If you are super attached to the car and you don't have a problem making the payments, maybe you could talk to another bank about refinancing this loan and keeping the car. You say the interest rate is high because you had bad credit at that time. If you feel that your credit has improved, you could see who has better rates. Just make sure you choose one bank and stick to it so you are not hopping around having several people pull your credit. And make sure to check on loan fees; some of them are several hundred dollars and would eliminate any savings you might see.
I know this is not the most popular response but just throwing out another option. If you did this, I would also try to get the loan for a shorter term.
It doesn't mean that you're going to drive that $1-3k car for the next 5 years, but you gradually move your way up in vehicle. Purchase a $1k vehicle now, get your snowball going, and maybe that car lasts 1 year. Then stop your snowball and move up to a $3k vehicle. It takes a bit longer to move your way up in vehicle, but you may find that you're fine with driving that $1k vehicle because it's paid for and it gives you that much extra in your snowball to keep you moving forward on debt payoff.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
I agree with this advice. I know the payment sucks, and being upside down in the loan sucks but in this case I would not want to pay for 3-5 years on a car I no longer own. If I were you I would snowball to get rid of all your CC debt (if you have any) and from there start working on your car payment to get you level.
If you can re-fi for a lower interest rate but the same or shorter term I would try it. Like a PP said find out from the bank if it's a possibility before submitting the app and having them run your credit.
Is your H's car upside down too? Is there a reason why you would want to pay his off first?
ETA: Personal loans generally have a pretty high interest rate compared to a car loan so I would look at that factor too. If you can make the payments fine now and the payment for a personal loan would be the same or more I would just keep doing what you're doing and trying to throw as much as possible at the car loan when you can to get the principle down.
Things to consider, I'm not saying don't sell your car, just think of these things:
You may realize that if you did his steps with the intensity he describes, then you can be debt free in 2 years and putting a lot more aside each month toward a down payment on a house. Rather than slowly working at multiple big goals at the same time, you will achieve smaller goals much quicker by focusing on them 1 at a time.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Right now, we aren’t putting any money towards a down payment since we want to pay off the debt first. Any extra money DH makes goes into a savings account each week and then I put it towards a bill at the end of each month. We were going to pay off DH’s car first since his balance is much lower than mine (one good thing about my mistake is that we didn’t make the same mistake with his) and we were going to snowball the extra cash into my loan.
I was playing around with my spreadsheet. If we were to pay off all CC debt and SL debt, I could pay off both cars by Dec 2017 without refinancing my car. I’m always putting in a little extra to help pay off quicker. I would like to refinance sometime this year, but I’m probably going to wait until the fall to do that (unless the interest rates start to go up, then I will refinance sooner).
Once everything gets paid off, it looks like I can put everything away in savings and have the 20% down payment by 2018/2019.
Thanks everyone for the input. From the way it looks, I’ll most likely keep the car and continue what I’m doing.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com