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GTKY: Gifts

For those of us working in half-empty offices this week and having a hard time staying motivated, I thought a little GTKY was in order!

1.  What was the best Christmas/holiday gift that you got this year?

2.  What was the best one that you gave?

3.  Do you do any end of the year charitable giving you're excited about?  If that's too personal for you feel free to skip.  

Re: GTKY: Gifts

  • 1.  My parents reimbursed us for the U2 tickets I bought, which was really generous!

    2.  We got my MIL a SodaStream.  She's pretty tech-shy so we weren't sure she would like it, but she absolutely loved it which was pretty exciting to watch.  

    3.  I'm trying to set up my charitable giving as monthly autodrafts so I don't have to think about it too much.  For next year I want to set one up for our local food bank.  I drive by it on my way to work and the lines are always really long :(
  • 1. My favorite gift was probably my Erin Condren life planner--it is expensive for a planner so I wouldn't buy it myself.

    2. the Best gift we gave was probably to my Mom, we got her a activelink that she has been wanting!

    3. I already set up my deductions to the local Gilda's Club, they have helped by dad already this year and they do so much for people and families with cancer.

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    1) Best gift was a tie - my parents got me an air compressor with a nail gun set so we could do trim (and they got my H a miter saw).  My H got me a waterford relish dish, which I love.  

    2) I think the best gift we gave was also a tie for my parents.  We got my mom a pill box from Buckingham palace in one of the queen's china patterns.  She went ga-ga.  We got my dad a coffee table book of animal photography called "More than Human."  He's a psychologist, but his specialty/research area is primatology.  He has studied gorilla behavior (mother-infant) for 35+ years and has taken a couple trips to Africa, etc. to observe the animals there.  He is also a hobbyist photographer - he has some absolutely amazing pics from his last trip to Africa (one is a close-up of two male lions on their hind legs fighting each other!) We got the book at the natural history museum in London, and he loved it.

    3) This year I was in charge of our law firm's United Way campaign.  We raised money for that, which will actually be deducted in 2015.  I also focus my tax practice on 501(c)(3)s, and I do a good bit of pro bono work in that area for charities that can't afford to pay my rates throughout the year.  So I guess this year I gave the gift of free legal services/tax advice...  which is probably the most valuable thing I have to give!
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  • 1. My favorite gift was an indoor electric grill that my parents gave to DH and I. Totally surprised us and we're super excited to try out some grilling recipes.

    2. Best gift we gave was a little add-on we gave to each my mom and dad. It was a prostate cancer awareness bracelet. My dad just recovered from prostate cancer and it was of course a huge and scary thing for them recently. Also scored big on a Minnie Mouse drum for my 2 year old niece.

    3. DH is in-between jobs after his latest contract just ended, so we can't extend ourselves too much past our regular tithes. We will be donating a small lump to a crisis shelter in DH's hometown in FILs name as his christmas gift. We are looking forward to being debt-free so that we can be NPR supporters haha!
  • edited December 2014

    1. I am most excited about the High Sierra lumbar day pack that my DH got me. We hike a lot and I've wanted a pack that doesn't cover my whole back. Right now, I'm filing one compartment with my first-aid/emergency supplies.

    2. I am most excited about the insulated picnic backpack we got DH's parents. It has service for 4 people and has two detachable wine bottle carriers. They are excited about it and picnic frequently as they walk/hike.

    3. Throughout the year we give to several ministries.

    Gospel for Asia focuses on the lowest members of the Caste System in India and Nepal. While the Caste System was officially outlawed by their federal government in 2004, stigmas and classism still exist in these nations today. People in this lowest caste go without sanitation, food, education, etc.. Many children are sold into slavery. GFA sets up Bridge of Hope centers around each province of India and in Nepal to educate the children, feed them, clothe them, and treat them with medical care. GFA also supports national missionaries in these nations and has programs to provide men and women with tools and animals to create income for their families. Currently, our family supports 15 children and 11 missionaries. www.gfa.org

    Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM): www.rzim.org has been around for a few decades. It's tag line is: Helping the Believer Think and the Thinker Believe. Ravi Zacharias is an internationally-renowned speaker and Christian apologist (defends the faith). His speaking engagements have included Ivy Leagues, branches of U.S. government, foreign universities and the U.N.. His team travels the world each year speaking to students, professors, and community leaders. Ravi is from India. He's got a lot of his speaking engagements on YouTube - notably the ones at universities I find the most interesting.

    There are a few others, which are smaller contributions throughout the year, that are in medical fields and radio stations.

    And, there's our church too.


  • 1 - Our budget was smaller this year because of a trip coming up in April so we only spent $350 total. My favorite gift was probably a tie between cash I got from MIL which will towards my spa day on friday and 2 metal prints of our family that I will hang in our family room.

    2 - Best gift we gave was to DD - frozen princess dress and the frozen movie

    3 - we don't give to charities much but would like to someday.
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  • 1.  What was the best Christmas/holiday gift that you got this year? Mom got me a SeaBags bag and wristlet. They are a made in Maine company that uses old sails and rope to make bags and they are out of my MM price range. I love them!

    2.  What was the best one that you gave? I won my mom a Sentsy basket from an auction H and I attended for work. She loved it!

    3.  Do you do any end of the year charitable giving you're excited about?  If that's too personal for you feel free to skip.  We used to give to the local humane society but we aren't doing it this year.

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  • 1.  What was the best Christmas/holiday gift that you got this year?
    A magic bullet - That thing is AWESOME!  I've been making smoothies every morning since we got it. It is so easy!

    2.  What was the best one that you gave?
    We got my MIL a pasta maker.  She has been borrowing the neighbor's pasta maker for years.  I think she thought that the pasta maker was like $300... but it is actually only $30. She was SO excited about it.

    3.  Do you do any end of the year charitable giving you're excited about?  If that's too personal for you feel free to skip.
    We don't do this yet.  We would like to start doing this later on, when we are more on our feet.
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    1. My mom gave us a deep freeze and my brother helped fill it with a side of beef. My mom also gave us a nice cash gift, which we put toward our debt - and made my student loan drop a digit, so exciting!!

    2. We like experiential gifts in my family, so my favorites would be taking my mom to The Nutcracker and sending my H on a surprise man trip out of state to visit college friends.

    3. I'm a professional fundraiser, and I follow the motto of "I can't ask if I don't give myself." We give to events my organization hosts throught the year, plus have a recurring pledge. We also make United Way gifts, both restricted (to a local food bank and a homeless center we volunteer at) and unrestricted. Plus we give to our church's backsnack program that sends kids in need home with food in the evenings and over the weekend.

    For those who don't give, I'd encourage you to look into your area United Way! It's a great organization that supports a variety of causes and would be a good place to find a nonprofit you can connect with and make a difference through in a variety of ways - including gifts of time and treasure!!
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  • 1.  What was the best Christmas/holiday gift that you got this year?

    Money

    2.  What was the best one that you gave?

    A gift card to Olive Garden- My favorite restaurant

    3.  Do you do any end of the year charitable giving you're excited about?  If that's too personal for you feel free to skip.  

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  • 1.  Best received.  Probably the cash I used toward the new table and chairs set for our kitchen.

    2. MIL was in love with her grill.

    3. We do an extra bonus to our pastor at church at the end of the year.  That's already been done.

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  • 1. We didn't exchange any gifts this year, we went out to lunch with my parents.

    2. I cooked a nice meal for my parents and grandpa yesterday, we played games and everyone had a great time.

    3. We give to the local humane society, the dog park association, services that provide meals and clothing to people, and of course the Ballet company that I serve on the board of directors for...all 501(c) (3) organizations.
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  • 1.  What was the best Christmas/holiday gift that you got this year?  My daughter

    2.  What was the best one that you gave?  Kindle Fire to MW who doesn't have a smart phone.

    3.  Do you do any end of the year charitable giving you're excited about?  If that's too personal for you feel free to skip.  I don't do any specific end of year charitable giving.  I do give a set amount each month to the United Way and I do give to my Church regularly.  I do give to other places at times including the Salvation Army.
  • 1 What was the best gift you got?  A remote car starter

    2 Best gift you gave?  DH made cranberry wine.  Our family really enjoyed it with Christmas dinner.  It turned out great!

    3 Do you do end of the year charitable giving your're excited about? Yes, however, I am most excited that DH and I continued our tradition of bell ringing with the Salvation Army.  Standing in the cold is not as easy as writing a check, but it feels much better!  SA helped my mom's family when she was growing up and FIL's family when he was a kid.  And I had a great uncle that bell rang daily as a retired senior citizen...very inspiring!


  • 1.  What was the best Christmas/holiday gift that you got this year?  Ice cream maker. I have been wanting one for a long time, and I can't wait to start using it!

    2.  What was the best one that you gave? Every year for Christmas I give my grandmother the gift of a letter a month throughout the year. It is always my favorite and hers too.

    3.  Do you do any end of the year charitable giving you're excited about?  If that's too personal for you feel free to skip. We support some conservation organizations, local poverty/homelessness groups and some international aid agencies as well as public radio. Some of that is done throughout the year, but the end of the year is definitely a time when we are reminded of how fortunate we are and how much others need our help.
  • maple2 said:
    1.  What was the best Christmas/holiday gift that you got this year?  Ice cream maker. I have been wanting one for a long time, and I can't wait to start using it!

    2.  What was the best one that you gave? Every year for Christmas I give my grandmother the gift of a letter a month throughout the year. It is always my favorite and hers too.

    3.  Do you do any end of the year charitable giving you're excited about?  If that's too personal for you feel free to skip. We support some conservation organizations, local poverty/homelessness groups and some international aid agencies as well as public radio. Some of that is done throughout the year, but the end of the year is definitely a time when we are reminded of how fortunate we are and how much others need our help.

    Ice cream machines are the BEST! I love mine, because I can make unique flavors like chai latte with chocolate chips.... yummmm!

    That gift with your grandmother is so sweet!


  • 1.  What was the best Christmas/holiday gift that you got this year?
    H got me a new all-in-one desktop computer w/ a touchscreen that is super sweet! 

    2.  What was the best one that you gave?
    We got my niece the Magic School Bus chemistry lab.  I wasn't sure if she'd be into it because she is a super girly girl, but she was hooked!  She can't wait to get to the volcano.

    3.  Do you do any end of the year charitable giving you're excited about?  If that's too personal for you feel free to skip.  
    We don't do anything specifically at the end of the year, but we have several organizations that we support throughout the year--some of our favorites are Relay for Life/American Cancer Society; the local search and rescue organization (H is a hunter so this one is really important to him); the local animal shelter; and the local community theater.
  • 1.  What was the best Christmas/holiday gift that you got this year? Probably, the extra little gift cards that went to groceries. (I'm boring, lol)

    2.  What was the best one that you gave? A scrap booking kit for my niece to do with my brother. She loves it!



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