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Dependent Care account vs just claiming on taxes...
Well being that i'm just weeks away from our first child being born, i'm trying to figure out whether i should open a "dependent care account" through work for daycare expenses (i can do this when he's born as a "life event" change). Our son will be in day care full time starting in early may at the latest. This would pull the money out pretax out of my paycheck and then i'd file for reimbursement every month after paying for daycare....
But i also have come to learn that i can just claim the daycare costs on our taxes at the end of the year and it works out the same. It would save a lot of hassle of having to get reimbursed but i'd also have less money in our budget each month since i'd have to pay for the full cost of daycare that month instead of essentially paying the "pretax amount". Plus any months where theres 5 weeks would cost more if i don't have the separate account.
What do other parents here do and why? I figure there's pros and cons to both but i'm not sure which makes more sense from a MM perspective.

Re: Dependent Care account vs just claiming on taxes...
1) How much you are able to contribute to a dependent care account. This is important for a couple of reasons. First, you may be eligible to put more money into a dependent care account than you can claim as a dependent care credit. In our case, if we only had 1 child we would still be able to contribute up to $5,000 to a dependent care account, but we would only be eligible for the childcare credit up to $3,000, which means the dependent care account would save us the most money. Second, you want to make sure that you will be prepared if and when you have to start paying the full, post-tax cost of daycare every month because your annual daycare costs are higher than your dependent care account limits. Or figure out how much you should plan to take from that account every month to balance your pre and post-tax payments throughout the year. At least for us, $5,000 doesn't go all that far in covering all of our childcare expenses.
2) Whether you can withdraw money from that account before you have accrued it. At least in my experience, this varies from company to company, but it obviously affects whether you will be able to reap any benefits from the dependent care account when your child starts daycare or if you will have to wait a month or so. This really just affects your budgeting at the beginning.
Just know you can't do both. My friend did (not knowing the rules) and now two years later... Letters from the IRS telling them how much they have to pay back.
We actually use it as a savings/debt-reduction tool. We pay daycare in our monthly budget, then request reimbursements only twice a year. We get $2500 and apply it as a chunk to debt.