Need your advice. My husband and I both work full time. We have three girls (4, 13 mo., 13 mo.). Christmas cost a whole hell of a lot more than we expected. How did that happen? Well I can only blame myself. Now we're trying to get ourselves out of the CC debt and work on putting money away for a good down payment on a minivan for me in the next year.
Both of our cars are paid off. We pay $2100 a month in daycare. Our one credit card is $5k (barf). And we have $45k in our e-fund. Our monthly take home is $7400 after retirement and dependant care account.
I know Dave Ramsey's mini steps are debt payoff first then e-fund. I'm just so afraid fo taking that money out of our e-fund and it never getting paid back.
Which would totally be my fault. (I do the finances).
I get my bonus in 2 weeks and then our tax return is coming.
What would you do?
Re: Pay off debt from e-fund?
I guess as long as we continue staying debt free (besides the car payment and daycare costs) we'll be able to continue building up our savings.
Plus, my oldest starts kindergarten in September so that will help a little with daycare costs.
Can I piggyback onto my own post with another question?
@hoffse made me think of something. So say I wanted to put $1500 away to start saving for a minivan. How would you do that? The first two weeks of the month are usually pretty brutal for us. With rent (1600 on the first) and daycare ($1100 for the first two weeks) that leaves us about $1000 to tackle the rest of our bills due during the first two weeks plus groceries, gas and my daughter's ballet class.
Then by the 15th, after another $1100 to daycare, we have $2600 for groceries, gas, cell phones, etc. Would you just automatically have $1500 taken out on the 15th or move that yourself monthly (in case that month you have other bills that come up (We pay our car insurance bi-annually so we get that bill in March and September). Does that make sense?
KEEP the emergency fund as it is and don't use it.
And no - do not use it when you buy a house either. Start a separate account for your future home.
Car - IF you need to finance it - do NOT finance longer than 3 years. If those payments are too high - you are buying too much car for your budget.
MAKE a budget - and stick to it. (You can start by tracking your current spending and categorizing it - -- it will bring into focus exactly where your money is going. Then comes an honest look at where you need to make changes and how you will do that. Time to PRIORITIZE.)
Is your spending helping you meet your goals and values? If not, why not?
A good book to read is David Bach's Smart Couples Finish Rich -
I know - however, they overspend (Christmas), (CC debt)t and are not operating on a pre-planned spending approach. (Besides I am a financially conservative person who believes in and keeps more than 6 months' expenses in an emergency fund, have a paid off mortgage and have no other debt - by practicing what I preach).
The exercise of setting up a spending plan (budget) to pay down the debt will form a better discipline and approach to money management.
The problem is not money or lack of money - the problem is money management.
I think I do feel comfortable taking from my e-fund to pay it off. And we have some financial goals for 2015. So that is where my efforts are going. Thanks for your input.
Thanks @cbee817. I have a 2008 Honda Accord that I LOVE and planned to drive until the wheels fell off. But then we had twins and that threw us a curve ball. We're making due with it for now, but are planning to trade in for an Odyssey in the next year.
@hoffse - That makes total sense how you do that. Our credit card bill is due the 18th of the month. I changed the due date to right after payday so that I knew we were able to pay it and not worry about it.
@aprilh81 - Thanks so much for your input. We will sit down this weekend and figure out how to stick to our actual budget.
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