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3T check in -

Sorry, I've been sick.. so I think I forgot to post last week.

 

If you have any changes to this list, wish to be removed, added, or have graduated (yay!), please shoot me a PM. 

FYI: We don't want to exclude people, but this is a check in for ladies who are unfortunately having trouble trying to conceive (TTTC = 3T). If you've been trying for more than a year and/or have been diagnosed with any form of infertility OR are now pursuing adoption OR have decided to remain childless following a 3T journey, you are welcome to join us. 

 Updates: Ok ladies... where are we at this week? Testing, Procedures, Appointments, Adoption updates, Life updates? What's going on, etc. Let's here all about it!!

 QOTW: What's your favorite guilty pleasure TV show that you're embarrassed to say you love?

FFC/AW of the Week (no rules):

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3T

- arj14 - TTC since August 2013, DX PCOS 7/14, trying diet changes while saving up for any future treatment. 

- BruinsBabe33: my body hates me ttc#2 officially since April 2014, anovulatory long irregular cycles

-Flamingo86: TTC since July 2012, 4 losses. Dx: MTHFR, clotting issues, otherwise unexplained. Considering adoption.

-FutureMrsWright2012: NTNP since 8/2010. TTC since 3/2012. Dx DOR, poss. clotting issues. IUI + Clomid x 2 = BFN. IVF #1 = BFP; loss of our baby boy at 18 weeks. Getting mind and body ready for probable IVF#2 in 2015

-IloveRedVino: DX:Primary dx PCOS, secondary dx unexplained infertility. One stillbirth, one miscarriage, two failed IVF cycles. Exploring new options

-islandmonkey8 - TTC 22+ months, DH perfect, me unexplained annovulatory cycles. After 3 IUIs, one second tri loss, moving on to IVF

-nfp147: No longer actively TTC but still amazing support to 3T family and deeply loved.

-OceanHutt: TTC unofficially since 2011, officially since 2012. DX MFI. Meeting with RE for IVF. Completing testing and getting healthy prior to treatment.

-poppies717 - TTC #1 since Feb. '12; dx - unexplained; After two rounds of IVF and one loss, we are now pursuing DIA

-rccola1981: Dx endometriosis, mild pcos and male factor. Moving towards foster-adopt.

-Rockabye: TTC since Dec 2008, DX: PCOS with no ovulation at all plus mild MFI.   2 Failed Clomid/IUI cycles, 1 failed Injectable/IUI cycles, 2 failed femara/injectable combo IUI cycles. 

-Seahorsey: TTC since October 2008, DX:Unexplained IF with failed IUIs and IVFs

-Sewilson33 - TTC since Dec. 2012; SA & BW came back great; Next step: HSG & RE

-Ystaalenburg: TTC since February 2012 DX: PCOS @ 16; Currently taking break after 2 failed treatment cycles.

In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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Re: 3T check in -

  • No update here. I haven't even really been temping this cycle. Not sure when we'll do our next/last femara/injects cycle. Maybe next month. If that fails, then we're pretty much done because I'm not sure IVF is in the cards for us financially. I don't even want to go there mentally just yet though.

    QOTW: The Bachelor

     

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • AF just started. My OB has officially left the practice I was going to. I cried. She said to only wait six months before I go in for another work up.

    QOTW: I just watched The Babysitters Club movie this weekend. 
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    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Maternity tickers
    J & J 10.21.06 
    BFP #1 02.13.12 
    We said goodbye to our sweet baby on 03.16.12. 
    BFP #2 07.07.12, due 3.18.13. Evelyn was born on 3.15.13!
    BFP #3 07.28.14
    We said goodbye to our triplets on 09.25.14.
    BFP #4 05.01.15, due 01.09.16
  • Update: None. Hanging out. Waiting.

    QOTW: Chopped. I love it. DH hates it, so I have to watch it when he's not home. It makes me want to cook a lot more.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • Three fucking announcements that came as a complete shock over this past week. I'm frustrated with my situation and I feel guilty about being upset by it. I'm just over this whole thing. I might just move to Alaska and be done with everyone and everything except bears, moose, crab fishing and aurora borealis.
  • I love you all and really am hoping nothing but the best for you. I'm frustrated where so many of you are in the journey right now. Big ((hugs)) all around!
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • I'm sorry you had so many surprise announcements this week Bruins :( It just sucks <3

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • ILoveRedVinoILoveRedVino member
    2500 Comments Fifth Anniversary 500 Love Its First Answer
    edited January 2015
    ❤️

    I love trashy reality TV. RHOC, RHBH, Kardashians, etc.
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • Nothing new here.  Cat continues to temp block me with random wake ups anywhere between 4 and 6:30 am. 

    I know I haven't been around really, but I've been thinking of you ladies. <3

    QOTW: Kitchen Nightmares and My Cat From Hell (which isn't on Netflix anymore booooo)
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    Anniversary
    08/13: Started TTC  - 07/14: PCOS dx
    BFP 09/18/15 - Baby S 05/27/16
  • poppies717poppies717 member
    500 Love Its 1000 Comments Second Anniversary Name Dropper
    edited February 2015
    Edit: Wrong post
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • Hugs to everyone who's in limbo or stuck right now. 

     @Flamingo86 - I love your baby girl's name. <3

    **LR**  AFM - I finally have an update... AMH was redrawn for the first time since starting on latest round of supplements (including CoQ10 and DHEA). To recap, in 2013 (pre-Clomid/IUI), AMH was 0.76; in 2014 (pre-IVF 1.0), AMH was 0.55; 5 weeks after loss and 1 week before D&C, AMH was <0.16. Now, we're at 0.59. Still super low, but at least we're where we were before getting pregnant with Lincoln. Definitely exciting news, as I had started mentally preparing myself for the very real possibility of DE. 

    What I was not prepared for was my RE recommending scheduling us to start IVF 2.0 this week. Neither is H. We both had a mini-freakout, but we agreed to at least meet with RE this week to talk about next steps. 

    I have so many mixed emotions... Primarily, I'm scared to death. Losing Lincoln has been, by far, the most traumatizing experience of my life. I can't imagine having to go through that again. Also, while I know I'll always mourn losing our little boy, I can't help but feel like I haven't mourned him long enough before jumping right into this all again. Does that make sense? Thankfully, we don't have all the money we need to move forward just yet (most will likely come from taxes again this year), so we're hoping that gives us the time we need to mentally prepare. 

    Sorry this turned out so long, but thanks for listening!


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • @FutureMrsWright2012‌ I have been there. Let me know if you want to talk it all over.

    Wishing you luck in making the decision on timing. <3
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • @FutureMrsWright2012‌ - it's very hard to decide when it is time to move forward. Lincoln will always be with you. I don't know if the fear and the pain will ever really fade. Whatever you decide and whenever, I'm here if you need. ❤️
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • @FutureMrsWright2012‌ - sending love and prayers your way. Wishing you peace as you and your H wade through the emotions and decision making process.
    **Signature Warning**

    Dx PCOS August 2012
    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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  • Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • (((FutureMrsWright)))

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • So many hugs to you, @FutureMrsWright2012.
    Anniversary
    Married: 10/13/2013
    TTC #1: Mirena removed 5/26/2015; DH - normal SA, me - diagnosed with PCOS 8/4/2016 - on Metformin;
    BFP - 10/29/2016!!!, EDD - 7/8/2017
  • Thinking of you @futuremrswright2012 {hugs}

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    Baby Boy born 5.3.15


  • Thank you all. I can't tell you how special it is to have the support of all of you. After my appointment on Thursday, I may take a few of you up on your offer to "chat". <3


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • Thinking of you FMW <3
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    TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad sperm 
    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • @FutureMrsWright2012 If you ever need to talk PLEASE feel free to message me here or on FB.

    it's so hard to know when the "right" time is to move forward. The fact of the matter is, you will never be done mourning the loss of your perfect little baby. I know I struggled with the feeling of trying to "replace" Josh and Zoe after their loss. I will never replace them, but we knew that we wanted to grow our family, we have our heavenly children and now an "earth" child. I'm so sorry. huge huge hugs <3

    Lilypie - XkBoLilypie - WuYI
    Me(27) PCOS, Hypothyroidism & Incompetent Cervix  DH(29) Azoospermia
    4/11- 12/11 Provera, 3 cycles clomid 50mg, all BFN (HSG-all clear)
    Dec 2011 DH S/A shows zero count - dx Azoo
    TESE 4/13/12 - Sperm found!! 5 viles frozen
    IVF ICSI #1- (Lupron protocol) 5R 2F 2dt- 2DP & 4CF - BFFN
    IVF ICSI #2-  (Antagonist protocol) Started stims 7/26
    ER 8/8 11R 9F 3dt - 9BF & 7BF (+HPT 8dp3dt)beta 1-184 beta 2- 1699 TWINS! EDD 5/1/13
    <312/9 Joshua David and Zoe Faith born too early at 19w4d due to incompetent cervix <3
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
      LAP Transabdominal Cerclage - 4/15/13 only possibility of carrying my children to term
    IVF ICSI #3.2- (Antagonist Protocol) 7/26 start stims (same day, a year later from J & Z's stim start date!)
    ER - 8/7  19R 9F 3dt of 2 8BF embryos. (+ HPT 7dp3dt) Beta #1- 82.8 Beta #2- 821 Beta 3-7254
    9/11/13 - U/S showed 1 baby HR 135bpm! EDD 4/30/14
    Colin born via c/s 4/7/14 (36w5d) 6lbs 14oz - 8 days in the NICU
    TTC #2 - IVF 4 - July 2015 (Antagonist Protocol) 7/10 start stims
    15R 8F 5dt of 1E blast grade BA & 1 blast to freeze!! (+hpt 6dp5dt)
    beta #1-52 beta #2-62 Beta #3-6.5 - CP
    FET - 9/18/15 (+hpt 5dp5dt) beta #1 -225.1 beta #2-2468 beta #3-21,352
    10/29 - U/S shows 1 bean! HR 151 EDD 6/7/16 It's a BOY!
    5/18/16 Jacob born via c/s (37w 1d) 9lbs .8oz 19in - 6 days in the NICU



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