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GTKY: What are the 'Big Things' you do to save/make money?
Hi folks,
I'm still new here, so just looking to share and exchange ideas a bit! I was wondering, we talk a lot (and I think there's a lot of information out there in general) about the little tricks one can do to save money, stretch food dollars, reuse household items, etc. But what about the really big things?
Anyone living off the grid? Raising their own chickens? Making their own clothes? Renting out an outbuilding to backpackers? What kinds of really substantial decisions have you made that help you earn more money, save more money, or just live in a really interesting way?
Re: GTKY: What are the 'Big Things' you do to save/make money?
* This one isn't "big" in my mind but it is a huge thing for H. We do not have cable. We get so-so internet through the school but that is better than paying for it.
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
For now, we're just ultra thrifty (no cable, drive 2001 Honda/Toyota cars, have garage sale and old college furniture, always buy on sale and most importantly, try our best to avoid buying stuff we don't need, etc.)
We do choose to live well below our means. We make about the same amount and can pay all our bills on just one salary, which means one of our incomes (about $5,000 a month) is dedicated solely to retirement savings, paying off our student loans and savings for dedicated goals (typically travel or home improvements). In the future that'll also give me the opportunity, if I want, to stay home with our children should we choose that.
We are hosting an international student. We make $750 a month from this.
We also live in a 1100 sq ft 2 br/2ba home. Not only is the mortgage cheaper, but the repairs are also so much cheaper. We just reroofed the entire house for $4,000.
I use my dad's employer's credit union for savings. They have no website, all deposits have to be made through my dad, and the CU consists of 1 part time lady that works like two days a week, but the interest rates are like 3%!
We play credit cards for their points. We probably make about $500 a year from this.
We have purchased 2 homes - with large down payments and paid them off early, using the profit of house #1 to purchase house #2. Both homes were well below what we can afford. (paid little interest and now live mortgage free). Purchased only what we need and not all the bells and whistles - in a walkable neighborhood - only 4 blocks from work. We both can walk to work, so drive very little.
We drive cars until they are no longer safe and pay cash. We have purchased both new and used, but mostly slightly used - reliable models.
When added to multiple small savings habits - it adds up !
We have always lived below our means and save.
A big thing I used to do was a part time job teaching Sunday School. My position was eliminated last year, but that extra income was huge! It is nice to have Sunday's free to go to church with H now, however.
We also saved big by buying a visually-dated house. It's so well laid out and structurally sound that I can't think of any other reason it was so cheap. We're even learning to love some of the quirks like the pink and black bathroom and crazy Formica countertops.
We do lots of "back to the land" type things at a pretty small scale like gardening, raising chickens and preserving food, but I'm honestly not sure they save us all that much money. For example, we might save $5/week not buying eggs at the store but we still have to buy food and bedding and we spent a couple hundred building the coop. We are still net negative on the chickens after a couple of years. Obviously that will change at some point, but it's never going to be a big ticket savings. We do it because we enjoy it and like to know where our food comes from.
One option to make chickens look better from a financial perspective is to go a little bigger and be able to sell some of the eggs. We have a friend who just sells eggs to coworkers, and she makes enough to cover the recurring costs of food and bedding. We typically have 3-4 chickens in our flock, and when they are all laying we have to work to go through all the eggs, so it probably wouldn't take a huge number to be able to sell some eggs.
One thing to think about with chickens, though, is what you want to do when they outlive laying age. I think I read at one point that chickens typically lay for around 3 years, but if they are well cared for they can live for 7. A friend tried to eat some backyard chickens after she had to cull her flock due to disease, and said the meat was basically inedible because it was so hard. We are vegetarian and our chickens are sort of a hybrid between pet and farm animal anyway, so we have resigned ourselves to taking care of chickens whatever their laying status. That will definitely cut into any savings, though, when we have to feed chickens at home and buy eggs from the store!
We recycle furniture. Like we took scraps of wood from when our fence was built and built two side tables for the backyard/deck. We got an old door at a salvage place & stripped it down & refinished it and turned it into our headboard. We just redid our bathroom and our cabinet on the wall no longer matches so we invested in spray paint instead of buying a new cabinet. When we kick out our roommate at the end of the year (he was part of the package when I met my husband - we kept him around to help pay for some big repairs on our house like to cover the cost of installing central air & to install a new fence,etc) we plan to hit up the salvage store again and make furniture for what will be our new office and probably look for some items for our man cave/guest room. With a little bit of paint, you can make things that don't match match.
I also have a knack for finding furniture for cheap or free- we use/keep what we want and I'm starting to refinish some of the stuff we don't so I can sell it. The market in my area is saturated with painters/ re finishers though so I won't be able to make much from these projects but it's still fun and hopefully will make a little money.
One of the other big things for us is coupon ing and keeping the baby costs down. I try not to buy anything unless it is on clearance or super cheap with a coupon. Probably to the point where I am too. Cheap. Dh told me 2 days ago that he wanted a couple new pairs of shorts and my first reaction was, I know I asked you this when they were on clearance in the fall. Fortunately for him we got a jcp coupn and they are on sale this week so he can probably get a nice pair for $10.
April - We host through a local company, but there are several big national companies that also arrange homestays. Pretty much any family (kids, no kids, pets, no pets) can host a student, as long as you have a spare bedroom. The company matches you with a student and serves as the middle man with collecting/distributing payment. You can choose whether you want a college student or high school student, man/woman, or even what nation they come from. You also choose whether or not you want to provide the student with meals, laundry, and transportation. The more you provide, the more money you get.
We have an older female graduate student from Kyrgzstan, who is earning a masters degree in English. She is an English teacher in her home country, so she is very fluent. She has only been with us for a month, but so far it has been a great experience. We provide her with dinner, which is pretty easy because we always had leftovers anyway. She also rides to work with me in the morning, because her school is close to my job. I wish we would have started hosting sooner!
My biggest thing to make/save money was buying a duplex when I bought my first home three years ago. I live on one side and rent out the other. Best financial decision I ever made! The rent I am able to charge for my area is double my mortgage payment (which also includes taxes and insurance).
In fact, it's been such a good experience, I am actively on the hunt for my second rental property.
I'm also pretty good at finding extra money opportunities. For example, I made $75 last night participating in a 90 minute focus group. I also do a good bit of mystery shopping. I've been doing that for many years. It's a fairly easy way to make a few extra hundred a month just in fees, plus reimbursements for cool stuff like nice dinners.
So much chicken information, lol! We have a friend whose family raises chickens. They are a family of four and they all love eggs and eat them all the time. The eggs are just for them. I think their initial investment was $150 and the feed is less than $10/month. They calculated out they will be saving themselves hundreds of dollars in eggs over the course of a year or two.
I also have a friend's aunt who raises chickens that lay pretty colored eggs...like light blue, orange, etc. And she regularly sells them to local gourmet restaurants.
We are planning to send our two children to private school since Ohio's schools are not the best especially in the Northeast where I live. That is an additional cost, but since MW and I both went through private schools we figure that this is the best way to have our children ready for life.
DH doing maintenance on our cars him self, instead of paying someone to do it.
Don't buy things we don't need, and shop sales whenever possible.