Hello, first-time poster, long-time lurker! I started lurking a few months ago and have gotten some really great ideas and inspirations, so thank you!
I am wondering if you could help me out with a question... My DH and I are selling our house- mostly for something bigger and in a different area (school district for LO, work commute change, etc). We unfortunately will not be walking away with a ton of money (thank you housing crash 8 years ago!), but enough to pay off a private student loan ($15k), cc bills (manageable, never late payments, at about $3k, taken out mostly for the end of school (me) and for getting the house on the market), and a bit more in the bank. After we close (soon!), we will be moving in with my mom. She has a big house and is out a lot, so looking forward for the inbetween spot and hoping to stay there between 6-9 months (we will be paying her "rent"- only $500/month). So, finally, my question is, should we aggressively pay down our current car loan ($400/mnth, $15k owed) or save money for a down payment for our next home or both? We will have about $3k leftover every month after everything (student loans, daycare, gas/car, groceries, tiny bit of fun money, etc) and I'm torn with where to put it. I want the car loan gone as it is high and also adds to our DTI ratio... However, I want a decent down payment. I'm at peace knowing that we won't have 20% down (sorry, I know not a popular opinion!) but we live in a HCOL area. We will be paying off the PMI at closing, though.
Soooo... What should I do?!
Thank you!
Re: Paying off Car Loan vs. Saving
What's your car loan's interest rate?
How long was the original loan term for? And, how long to you have left on it?
What make/model of car? Year?
This was mostly my husbands decision to buy (obviously I chimed in) as it replaced a car that he had for over 10 years and drove until dead. He doesn't mind the monthly payments and we pay a bit over the minimum, but I will never again have such a high car loan! Ugh.
If you can get enough money and still attack the car loan, I see nothing wrong with going for it!
Also, what do you mean by 'paying off the PMI at closing?'
Re: 'paying off the PMI', at closing we can pay a lump sum (typically only a few thousand dollars) to payoff PMI. This is based on credit and how much of a down payment you have. It takes away the monthly payment and is much less expensive than a monthly payment over 30-years. Of course we will go over everything once we have solid numbers, but that's what I'm leaning towards now as I hate the thought of monthly PMI.
Or maybe we will just live with my mom for forever, ha
@formerlyGDaisy09, just be really careful with Zillow. They are often WAY, WAY...sometimes crazy WAY off on their estimates. However, sometimes there are actual sales for an area listed. Those are true numbers, though you still need to be careful and look at how long ago the sale happened. I've seen it where the sale happened 2-3 years ago. Not exactly current and a bank's appraiser will typically only look at sales that have happened within the last 6 months.
For example, I've been looking to buy a second rental property. I looked at one this weekend that is worth maybe...MAYBE on a good day...$75K. Probably more like $65-$70K. This is an area of town where I am pretty familiar with the housing prices. Zillow zestimated this house as being worth $283,000. I literally almost fell out of my chair laughing. I wish I could buy up these houses for $70K and sell them for four times that much. (And now I gently land myself back into this reality.)
Instead of Zillow, look at one of those realty websites that list houses for sale on the MLS. Like realty.com or Latter&Blum's website. Do a search for your zip and see what similar houses are being listed for. Of course, "listed" and "bought" are two different things, but it should at least get you into the ballpark.
If I were you, I'd wait until your renovation is done. That should add a nice chunk of change to your equity and put you at the 80% mark or more, if you are already close to that number.
Also, regarding Zillow, I have also noticed that their prices seem very inflated. I did forget that PMI can be taken off at 80%- thanks for the reminder and best of luck getting it removed @formerlyGDaisy09
Meh! Don't even get me started about tax assessment offices.
The year I bought my house, I went down to the assessor's office when I got my tax bill for the next year. They valued my house at $210K...the one I had JUST bought for $81K. Umm...yeah.
I brought all my closing paperwork, including my appraisal which showed the home valued at $125K. The assessor lowered the value to $135K. I was like, "But I just bought the house for $81K...and even my own appraisal that was done less than 6 months ago is $10K less than yours." He said he took that into consideration and that was why he lowered it to $135K. Argh! Still way too high but, whatever. You can't fight city hall. I was just grateful they lowered the assessment to at least something sort of close to the value.
Then the tax bill the year after that was back to a $210K value. I stood in line for 11 hours to dispute the assessment...because that's how we roll in Orleans parish/county (rolling eyes). I brought my previous paperwork...including the previous year's assessment. Only to have the assessor say, "Well, I don't know what you want. We really can't do better than the $135K assessment you received last year." I literally gripped my chair to stay calm and keep from screaming. I replied, "Yes, exactly. All I am asking is for you to lower this year's assessment to last year's number. As you can see, it was erroneously raised a large amount. If it was the same as last year's, I wouldn't even be here." His reply, "Oh, okay. I see that now. Sure, I can change it back to $135K." (Banging my head against the wall).
I found out each area of the city gets reassessed every four years and I just had the bad luck that my area was reassessed the year after I bought my house. Hence why I had to do the excruciating reappraisal dance two years in a row. All has been calm since then, but my area is due for a reappraisal for the 2017 tax year, and home values have gone up a crazy 12% and 13% (respectively) over the last two years. A good thing for sure! But I'm already dreading the 2017 tax bill.
@formerlyGDaisy09, good luck with that! I'm sure it will feel great and be a nice savings to finally drop that PMI anchor off your loan and budget. While I understand why banks require it, from a homeowner's perspective it is just throwing money into the fireplace every month.
I realize you may not have an FHA loan. But nowadays, PMI follows FHA loans for the life of the loan. Pure evil and totally unnecessary, IMO. Fortunately, I put 20% down for my primary residence, so I don't have to deal with it. But still, I think it is an injustice for others.
My next real estate purchases are purely for investments and banks REQUIRE a 25% down payment for non- owner occupied real estate. So I'm like, "Yeah! No PMI, " then, "Darn it! I have to make a 25% down payment, lol."
This will set you up the best financially, for the what ifs of homeownership. If you can, live with your mom until you have these financial goals met. Even maybe discuss with her what your financial plans are to move into a different home and why you would like to stay there longer than originally planned.
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