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NMMR: Prayer Request (XP with The Knot) -- Updated in Thread

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edited March 2015 in Money Matters
I debated whether or not to post this, but I don't want to be one of "those people" who posts everything to Facebook to be an AW so I'm going to post this here to get it out of my system.

My dad is in ICU awaiting open heart surgery tomorrow morning.  It will most likely be a triple bypass, but that could change once they get in the OR and see exactly what is going on.  He has been in ICU all week after going to the hospital on Monday for a heart cath and stents.  They couldn't do the stents and they put in a balloon pump to help his heart rest and get more oxygen flowing.  

He is in good spirits but we are all tired and worn down.  I'm worried he won't survive the surgery, he is 78 years old and has had a stroke about 10 years ago.  I know this is a common surgery and his chances are good, but I'm still worried.

Please pray (or whatever you believe in) for my Dad, the surgeon and the medical team who will be working on him tomorrow.
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Re: NMMR: Prayer Request (XP with The Knot) -- Updated in Thread

  • Awww, thoughts and prayers going out to your Dad!  I'm sure it's nerve wracking.  Please keep us posted!
  • Sending lots of prayers to your dad and you and your family. I'm sorry you're dealing with so much lately.
  • Praying for your dad and your family for a positive outcome and a quick recovery.
  • I'm praying for y'all. I lost my dad when I was thirteen to due to several years worth of heart attacks/transplants etc. so I understand how you must be feeling. All of us are here for you!
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  • Praying for strength for your dad and comfort and peace for your family.
  • Thinking of you!
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  • sending lots of prayers for an uneventful, routine proceedure and healing afterwards. 
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  • May the Lord bless you and keep you and give you peace.

  • praying for you and your family
  • praying for you and your dad!
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  • Definitely thinking of you and your dad!
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  • So sorry to hear this, that is terrible. Praying for you guys...
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  • So glad to hear it went well!
  • Wonderful news! Hooray!
  • YEA!!  I'm sure that is a relief
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  • Glad to hear it went well!  My dad had an open heart surgery couple years ago, it was the most stressful thing
  • Great news!
  • Dad is continuing to do well.  The last chest tube (for drainage) is supposed to be removed today and it is possible he will be out of the hospital today, but it may be tomorrow.

    He is walking well and Mom is considering taking him HOME instead of to an in-patient rehab center.  The rehab centers that are Medicare approved are all in nursing homes and that would be a very depressing atmosphere for him plus rehab in nursing homes are not that rigorous in our experience.

    I came back home yesterday afternoon and I'm back to job hunting and small projects around the house.   
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  • Well I am glad you are home. It must have been a long weekend. Hopefully wherever he goes for rehab he gets the care he needs.

    Nursing homes for rehab kind of suck. My step dad always stayed in one and he was lonely and bored. When I was 10 we had a community service trip where was staying. We hadn't been able to visit him in the hospital so I hadn't seen him in several days. I actually found his room and ended up napping in bed with him instead. The teachers had to get a nurse to convince me to come back to school.

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  • @AprilZ81, just saw this post and glad to hear things are going well, all things considered.  One of my coworkers had a quad bypass about a year ago and I was amazed at how quick his recovery was and how much healthier he seemed after it.  It is just incredible what doctors/staff/hospitals can do nowadays.

    I hope his strong recovery continues.  My prayers go out to you and your family.

  • I’m sure it must be a great relief for you and your family that your dad’s surgery was successful. Praying for his complete recovery.

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  • Sorry I'm just seeing this.  So glad he's doing better!  I hope he has a quick and full recovery!
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