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talk me down off the doggy rescue sites!
so I'm a total bleeding heart when it comes to animals...like I had to give-up volunteering at the humane society and give them money instead because otherwise I'd have a house full of cats and dogs (and maybe bunnies) because I'd just start falling in love with every animals there...this is how we got our two cats.
H and I have talked about the possibility of adding another dog to our family to give our dog a playmate, and so he and I can go off and do fun things like skijoring together without one person leaving the other behind. (seriously he refused to come out skiing with me and the dog this winter because he didn't want to be playing keep-up). However the discussion always gets back to if we have the money for two dogs or not. Anyone here have 2 dogs? does adding a second double your expenses? We have several friends who have two dogs, and they seem to love it.
I bring it up because I've stumbled onto a rescue near us that has a dalmatian-mix that looks like she'd fit right in with our crew.
I'm the crazy animal lady...like I've said before, my dream retirement is to buy a farm and rescue animals.
Me: 28 H: 30
Married 07/14/2012
TTC #1 January 2015
BFP! 3/27/15 Baby Girl!! EDD:12/7/2015
Re: talk me down off the doggy rescue sites!
As for two dogs, from personal friends, the biggest money issue came from putting them both into a doggy daycare. For me the money hardly counts when it comes to our cats. We can't bear to drop $25 on a meal out on ourselves but don't mind grabbing a $25 bag of cat food. They are completely worth it!
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
I have 3 dogs, on a daily basis, there isn't much of a price difference between 1 and 3. We have 3 mini dauchunds, they only go through about 2 cups of food a day. Now if we only had one, we would only go through 1/2-3/4 cup of food a day. Now if we only had one dog, it probably would be easier to find someone to take one dog for a few days when we go away. But to find someone or multiple people to take the dogs, that won't happen. The cost to board 3 dogs is crazy so we have to have someone that comes to the house. And then when it comes to vet visits & dog license, obviously that does cost us more money.
On the social side, they do keep each other company and love to play with each other. We have a fenced in yard so in spring & summer when I'm doing yard work, they play with each other for hours. They cuddle together. And you know that feeling you get when you come home from a bad day at work and you see your dogs face just so happy to see you and wants to love you, when you have more then one dog, you get to multiple that love.
@xstatic3333
In the past we paid $25.00 a night, but our dog sitter was the 18 year old son of my husbands best friend. He didn't drive so we also had to stock up the house with food so he would be ok. Unfortuantely the last time he was here there was an issue and we now have to find a new dog sitter. I know my sister pays $300.00 a week for her dog sitter for her 3 dogs (2 of which are large) but she doesn't have to provide any food for the sitter and the sitter does stay at the house.
When I was pet sitting I charged $25-35 a night for dogs and for cats (I didn't have to do overnights for cats & only one visit per day) $10-15 depending on location. The range on the dogs was for depending on if it was weekend or weekdays & the location to work. If it would cause me a longer commute to work during the week, I charged towards the higher end $35.00
Like some of you, I REALLY want a second dog also, but my husband has put his foot down about it. Not so much because of the cost, but because of the room. Plus our dog is really energetic and, when she is with another dog, she is even more energetic. It wears me out just watching her play with other dogs, lol.
We house-sat for a co-worker's dog for two weeks. They were having crazy fun with each other for hours on the first couple nights. Wrestling, wrestling, wrestling. Chasing each other up and down the house. We thought they would mellow out after the newness wore off. Nope. They were exactly the same crazy energy and playtime on night 14, lol.
But that's why I want to get her a friend dog! She would love it so much (and so would we).
I especially want a French Bulldog puppy (rescue). I'm blaming Stella on Modern Family, for those familiar with the show. She's an adult Frenchie and ridiculously cute.
So now my analogy about pet shelters. I don't remember where I read this, but it makes me feel better when I start to feel sad about ALL the poor dogs, cats, and other pets that live in shelters. Both my dog and my cat are rescues. Here's the analogy:
A boy and his grandfather were walking along the beach. It was that time of year when there were hundreds of small fish that would wash up onto the shore and then die. The boy grew concerned and asked his grandfather what they could do to help the fish. The grandfather told him that, unfortunately, there was nothing they could do because there were too many of them.
The boy thought about that for a moment and then ran over to the closest fish, picked it up, and threw it as far as he could into the water. The grandfather said, "Why did you do that? It doesn't even matter." To which the boy replied, "It mattered to that ONE."
I know the feeling, I use to work at a Veterinarian hospital and i couldn't take it. I wanted to take home every pet that came in that had been mistreated.
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
So, we've decided to wait. I'm thinking we'll TTC and hopefully have a human baby before adding another furbaby. Haha.
TTC Countdown to 8/2015
@formerlyGDaisy09, oh no! What are you doing? You are stepping CLOSER to the edge, lol
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But seriously, it sound like you and your DH are at least giving it a lot of thought before making a commitment to another pet.
On a different note, I'm assuming the Solarize project you are talking about is in regards to putting solar panels on your roof? I already have some on mine. They were installed about 18 months ago. Although, in my area, they are done more as a lease than actually buying the panels outright.
There was no down payment at all and they cost me $35/month, plus the company insures the panels since they still own them. The rate won't change for 20 years and, after 20 years, I own the panels. Of course, that is a long time away and the life of the panels is only 25 years. I am contractually obligated to pay the $35/month for 6 years, though. However, if I were to sell the house before then, I could transfer the contract to the new buyer (if they were so inclined).
At any rate, that is the basic gist of how it works where I live. And I love, love, love my solar panels! Even including the $35/month fee, I save so much money with them. There are no trees or anything else that block my panels at all. Over the last 12 months, I have produced 69% of my own electricity.
During the day, I produce more than I use. The excess is actually routed back through the electrical grid. For every one KwH I provide to the grid, I get one KwH back as a "credit" for the energy I use at night (when the panels are not generating electricity).
I live in the South. Summer used to be the harsh time of year for electrical usage. Ironically, for me, now winter is the rough time because my house is primarily heated with gas...not electricity....but they come on the same bill.
I also replaced all my windows about one year ago. That helps with electricity costs as well, but it is hard for me to say how much because the windows were done only a few months after the solar panels were installed.
there isn't anywhere that offers a lease option. my grandfather installed solar at his home 15 years ago, in the summer he actually gets a check from the electric company every month because he makes more than he uses, he says his biggest bill in the winter has been in the $20 range (again before rates jumped).
@formerlyGDaisy09, I got a HELOC last year. Depending on the bank, you can usually get a HELOC up to 70-80% of strictly your equity. So, in your example, yes you would only be eligible to get a HELOC for up to 2% of the value of the home.
When you're ready, definitely shop around. I was surprised at how many differences there were between banks. Some charged fees to open a HELOC, some didn't. Some charged an annual fee, some didn't. All of them had similar interest rates, thought not the same, and almost all of them had some kind of introductory interest rate.
You need an appraisal for a HELOC and all of them charged the borrower for that, except one (Whitney).
And that was the one I chose. They were pretty awesome. They didn't charge me anything at all, except the parish's (county) filing fee. Which was $250.
Two-hundred and fifty dollars!?! To file a 12-page document. I'm sure it was many, many hours of grueling work for a City Hall employee (sarcasm).