Need help please, my wife dosent like when I pull out, she says to cum inside her, I don't wanna get her pregnant and keep upsetting her ,my question is when is it safest to go in her, right after her period or closer to her period?
It is never completely "safe" to ejaculate inside her without any possibility of pregnancy.
You need to have a conversation with your wife. If you aren't ready to have children, then you should use some form of birth control (condoms, oral contraceptives, IUD, etc...) until you BOTH are 100% on board with getting pregnant.
Married 2-20-10 Dx PCOS 1-2013 Metformin 500mg 3x/dayWill Start TTC Aug. 2015
So it sounds like she wants to get knocked up and you don't. Seems like you have bigger fish to fry than whether or not you pull out.
Let's make it easy. To save you the pain of trying to figure out her fertile days, use a condom or get her on birth control. People have oops babies all the time because they mess up. Unless you're ready for one, you better have some kind of birth control.
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Re: fertility
You need to have a conversation with your wife. If you aren't ready to have children, then you should use some form of birth control (condoms, oral contraceptives, IUD, etc...) until you BOTH are 100% on board with getting pregnant.
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