January 2012 Weddings
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I've got a few. Thought it would be appropriate.
1. I'm at work while J is home sick.
2. I have to get up early tomorrow, because I somehow agreed to go on a 14 hour field trip the day before I start the art show set up. That was dumb.
3. I have a prom dress to finish and give to a girl tonight... Not sure how that's going to get done.
Re: Wednesday Whines
2. P is really annoying me. I think it's because he's not happy at work and he brings that home.
3. I want to wean Lily but I don't want to deal with the days (or possibly weeks) of horrible naps/sleep as we wean.
What I really wanted to say was that if he was so tired of it, he needs to either get his boss to put him in the on-call rotation or find a new job. I'm sick of hearing him complain about work when he does nothing to change it. And my PMS hormones are not helping my reaction, I know. Funny enough, when I wasn't working and he was stressing about money, it felt like he was always bringing up me finding some way to work from home. When I do find a work from home job, he hates it because it interferes with his free time. When do I get free time? So that's my rant/whine - P is being crabby which is making me crabby.
There are times I'm glad Joy went back to work and there are times I wish she'd just stayed at home. I never expected someone who made straight A's in a Master's degree to stay home. Would have been a waste on so many levels. However, because we work opposite shifts, we never get to have any time together except Wednesday evenings and most Sundays. Sometimes I feel like her and I are roomies.
Is it possible something like that could be going on and he's just not saying it right?
Mark, it's possible. But we see each other pretty much every evening and on weekends. Before this week I was only having maybe one 4 hour shift a week. Sometimes that was every two weeks. This week I had 5. So I get that it's a big change this week. But the rest of the month I'm back to one shift a week. Maybe he was just feeling really overwhelmed?