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Interview Etiquette

I graduated with my bachelors a couple of weeks ago, and my internship ended upon graduation. I have been searching for a new job since, and have had a few leads. I had my first interview for a company (company A) today, and I will have my second interview for a different company (B) tomorrow.


While I would be happy to take a job with company B, I think I would prefer to work for company A just based on the job description being a bit closer to what I want to do in my career. I am just worried that if company B offers me the position by tomorrow afternoon or Tuesday (they need someone to start soon) that I will feel obligated to accept the offer. the woman at company B told me they need someone soon as well, so I should expect to hear back about a second interview by the beginning of next week, but even that still isn't a guarantee.


My only concern is that, while we have been able to afford for me to stay home for this period of time, things are tight and I will need a job ASAP, especially once I have to start paying my loans back. Basically, I can't afford to lose out on job A because I was waiting to hear back from job B.


Is there a way that I can say that I am still interested in the job at company B (if offered) while waiting to hear back from A? I know this is all hypothetical, but I have been giving it a lot of thought because accepting either of these jobs sort of takes me in a different direction in my career (both fine choices), and I would like to stay with a company for a few years at least, so I want to make the best decision, but I still have to think about paying the bills.

Re: Interview Etiquette

  • First, good luck!

    Second, try not to borrow trouble.  If you get a job offer, thank them very much for the opportunity and ask them for 24 hours to think about it.  I think more than 24 hours and you start to piss of hiring managers and HR.

    Also, don't be afraid to negotiate, especially on the salary.
    Formerly AprilH81
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  • Thank you! I figured I could ask for 24 hours. I'm hoping they would at least wait until the afternoon to make an offer, and they are closed Monday, so that would give me time.
  • I would definitely ask them for 24 hours, and it really shouldn't be a big deal at all. Just make sure you get back to them within the 24 hours you requested (unless over a weekend), even if Company A hasn't made an offer yet otherwise it might not look that great.
  • I think it's completely reasonable, if you get an offer from company B and you've already had a second interview with company A, to call company A and let them know you've received another offer. You might be able to push their timeline up a bit by saying, "I really enjoyed meeting everyone there at Company A and I think I'd be able to really contribute if I were to be hired. However, I've received another offer elsewhere and before giving them my decision, I wanted to see if you were close to a decision at company A."

    If you're in the top 2-3, they might work to speed up the process, if you aren't, they might give you the peace of mind to take B's offer without worrying that you missed out.

    CAVEAT: If you are in a small or insular industry, I wouldn't do anything other than ask for 24 hours. 
  • Thanks for the advice! I had my second interview with company B today. I was tentatively offered the position. They just have to figure out when the next training date will be (it's a 3 week training program, and one just started), so that gives me time to see what happens with company A.
  • Congrats on the job offer!  It has to be a big relief to know you have something lined up, and even better if you end up with two offers!
    Formerly AprilH81
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  • Congrats!  Hopefully you will get a job offer from Company A in the meantime ;).  But, if not, I'd use the suggestions of asking for 24 hours...let Company A know the situation but...if they can't come up with a job offer, take the one from Company B.

    I made the mistake early on of not going on an interview for a job (I think) I would have LOVED because I had just started working for a company and had only been there a month.  I was way too nice and naïve back then, lol.

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