Getting Pregnant
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

Petition for mandatory IF coverage

ILoveRedVinoILoveRedVino member
2500 Comments Fifth Anniversary 500 Love Its First Answer
edited July 2015 in Getting Pregnant
***Sorry about the font on here, but I wanted to share this.  See the link below to add your name to the petition.

https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/mandate-all-insurance-cover-infertility-basic-healthcare-acknowledge-infertility-disease-not-choice

Mandate All Insurance to Cover Infertility as Basic Healthcare. Acknowledge Infertility as a Disease, Not a Choice.

No one expects to receive a diagnosis of infertility, or in even more crippling times, unexplained infertility, but they do. Then we reach out to the insurance companies WE pay to help us, not expecting to be turned away, and we are. Infertility is a disease that men and women do not choose, nor do we welcome the depression, shame, and anxiety that accompany it.

It is referred to as a "pre-existing condition" that requires months, to years, of care, but how is being diagnosed with the inability to do what you were BORN to do, different than someone who has diabetes and seeks possible lifetime assistance through their insurance?

Mandate infertility coverage on a state level, so those who already suffer do not have to spend more on a second policy, just to have a dream come to life.

IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
FET - BFN
FET - BFN
Switched clinics
IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
Baby Boy born July 2015

Re: Petition for mandatory IF coverage

  • Signed! Will be sharing as soon as I have access to FB at home!
    image
    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
    image
    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • This is coming up weird on mobile. I will look at this on my computer at home.
    Married 2-20-10        Dx PCOS 1-2013         Metformin 500mg 3x/day  Will Start TTC Aug. 2015
  • Signed and shared!
  • I am fortunate to have great IF coverage if I ever needed it. I want everyone to be so fortunate!



    Anniversary
    Love: March 2010   Marriage: July 2013   Debt Free: October 2014   TTC: May 2015
  • Shared and signed
  • ***Sorry about the font on here, but I wanted to share this.  See the link below to add your name to the petition.

    https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/mandate-all-insurance-cover-infertility-basic-healthcare-acknowledge-infertility-disease-not-choice

    Mandate All Insurance to Cover Infertility as Basic Healthcare. Acknowledge Infertility as a Disease, Not a Choice.

    No one expects to receive a diagnosis of infertility, or in even more crippling times, unexplained infertility, but they do. Then we reach out to the insurance companies WE pay to help us, not expecting to be turned away, and we are. Infertility is a disease that men and women do not choose, nor do we welcome the depression, shame, and anxiety that accompany it.

    It is referred to as a "pre-existing condition" that requires months, to years, of care, but how is being diagnosed with the inability to do what you were BORN to do, different than someone who has diabetes and seeks possible lifetime assistance through their insurance?

    Mandate infertility coverage on a state level, so those who already suffer do not have to spend more on a second policy, just to have a dream come to life.

    Playing the devil's advocate here, but you can't compare IF with diabetes. Diabetes (assuming Type 1 Juvenile diabetes) is a life threatening condition that without treatment results in death. Not saying I agree or disagree with your petition, but that comparison is a very poor one.
    HeartlandHustle | Personal Finance and Betterment Blog  
  • als1982 said:
    ***Sorry about the font on here, but I wanted to share this.  See the link below to add your name to the petition.

    https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/mandate-all-insurance-cover-infertility-basic-healthcare-acknowledge-infertility-disease-not-choice

    Mandate All Insurance to Cover Infertility as Basic Healthcare. Acknowledge Infertility as a Disease, Not a Choice.

    No one expects to receive a diagnosis of infertility, or in even more crippling times, unexplained infertility, but they do. Then we reach out to the insurance companies WE pay to help us, not expecting to be turned away, and we are. Infertility is a disease that men and women do not choose, nor do we welcome the depression, shame, and anxiety that accompany it.

    It is referred to as a "pre-existing condition" that requires months, to years, of care, but how is being diagnosed with the inability to do what you were BORN to do, different than someone who has diabetes and seeks possible lifetime assistance through their insurance?

    Mandate infertility coverage on a state level, so those who already suffer do not have to spend more on a second policy, just to have a dream come to life.

    Playing the devil's advocate here, but you can't compare IF with diabetes. Diabetes (assuming Type 1 Juvenile diabetes) is a life threatening condition that without treatment results in death. Not saying I agree or disagree with your petition, but that comparison is a very poor one.
    Insurance covers Viagra for erections. Erections aren't life threatening, therefore should insurance not cover that as well?
    image
    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
    image
    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • als1982als1982 member
    1000 Comments 500 Love Its Third Anniversary Name Dropper
    edited July 2015


    als1982 said:

    ***Sorry about the font on here, but I wanted to share this.  See the link below to add your name to the petition.

    https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/mandate-all-insurance-cover-infertility-basic-healthcare-acknowledge-infertility-disease-not-choice

    Mandate All Insurance to Cover Infertility as Basic Healthcare. Acknowledge Infertility as a Disease, Not a Choice.

    No one expects to receive a diagnosis of infertility, or in even more crippling times, unexplained infertility, but they do. Then we reach out to the insurance companies WE pay to help us, not expecting to be turned away, and we are. Infertility is a disease that men and women do not choose, nor do we welcome the depression, shame, and anxiety that accompany it.

    It is referred to as a "pre-existing condition" that requires months, to years, of care, but how is being diagnosed with the inability to do what you were BORN to do, different than someone who has diabetes and seeks possible lifetime assistance through their insurance?

    Mandate infertility coverage on a state level, so those who already suffer do not have to spend more on a second policy, just to have a dream come to life.

    Playing the devil's advocate here, but you can't compare IF with diabetes. Diabetes (assuming Type 1 Juvenile diabetes) is a life threatening condition that without treatment results in death. Not saying I agree or disagree with your petition, but that comparison is a very poor one.



    Insurance covers Viagra for erections. Erections aren't life threatening, therefore should insurance not cover that as well?

    I'm not arguing that insurance should or shouldn't cover IF treatment. What I am saying is the diabetes comparison is completely flawed.
    HeartlandHustle | Personal Finance and Betterment Blog  
  • als1982 said:
    als1982 said:
    ***Sorry about the font on here, but I wanted to share this.  See the link below to add your name to the petition.

    https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/mandate-all-insurance-cover-infertility-basic-healthcare-acknowledge-infertility-disease-not-choice

    Mandate All Insurance to Cover Infertility as Basic Healthcare. Acknowledge Infertility as a Disease, Not a Choice.

    No one expects to receive a diagnosis of infertility, or in even more crippling times, unexplained infertility, but they do. Then we reach out to the insurance companies WE pay to help us, not expecting to be turned away, and we are. Infertility is a disease that men and women do not choose, nor do we welcome the depression, shame, and anxiety that accompany it.

    It is referred to as a "pre-existing condition" that requires months, to years, of care, but how is being diagnosed with the inability to do what you were BORN to do, different than someone who has diabetes and seeks possible lifetime assistance through their insurance?

    Mandate infertility coverage on a state level, so those who already suffer do not have to spend more on a second policy, just to have a dream come to life.

    Playing the devil's advocate here, but you can't compare IF with diabetes. Diabetes (assuming Type 1 Juvenile diabetes) is a life threatening condition that without treatment results in death. Not saying I agree or disagree with your petition, but that comparison is a very poor one.

    Insurance covers Viagra for erections. Erections aren't life threatening, therefore should insurance not cover that as well? I'm not arguing that insurance should or shouldn't cover IF treatment. What I am saying is the diabetes comparison is completely flawed.
    I think you're nit picking and honestly should gauge your audience. IF can lead to depression, anxiety, and other life threatening diseases. But just because you don't see not having a kid as life threatening, it can't be compared to diabetes? Have you ever lost a child? Have you ever been unable to conceive for some unknown reason and been unable to afford to even find out what is wrong because insurance won't cover it? Have you been through any of the trauma IF can bring? I see no reason you can say without a doubt that IF is not life threatening with such blatant disregard for the true turmoil it puts too many people through.
    image
    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
    image
    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • als1982als1982 member
    1000 Comments 500 Love Its Third Anniversary Name Dropper
    edited July 2015
    It's a huge jump to say I have no disregard for the turmoil that IF puts people through.  I can absolutely empathize with the suffering of those with that diagnosis.  But the fact is, it's not a life threatening condition.  It's just not.  Depression and anxiety are, and yes, ideally, insurance should be compelled to cover those. 

    Frankly, IMO until the U.S. mandates care for all and care is made available for those with life threatening and life limiting conditions, I think IF coverage should take a back seat.  In a perfect world, it should be covered.  But our health care system is so broken, that saving lives should be the first priority.

    And you're right, it is gross that Viagra is covered.  Our system is so stupid.
    HeartlandHustle | Personal Finance and Betterment Blog  
  • Have you really lurked at all on this board? Do you see who you are talking to? I can't believe you're saying what you are. You think this shouldn't be a priority because other things should be in front of it? So only one change can be made at a time in this country?
    image
    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
    image
    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • skreedrakeskreedrake member
    Fifth Anniversary 500 Love Its 1000 Comments Name Dropper
    edited July 2015
    Health insurance pays for many, many things that are not life threatening. It pays for preventative care, birth control, medication for mental health, etc. Just a few years ago, it paid for a mole I had removed; it was not cancerous or in any way life threatening. I wanted it removed because it was uncomfortable when my seatbelt rubbed agains it.

    It's also paid to remove some cysts on my wrist, physical therapy after said surgery, pain medication, etc.

    Why shouldn't it pay for infertility, too?

    ETA: Also, why is it gross that Viagra is covered? Sexual healthis also important, and not having s healthy sex life can lead to things like anxiety and depression. It's all health care.
     image image
    10/10/2010
    TTC Since May 2011
    DX: Subclinical Hypothyroidism
    BFP #1: 11/21/2011. EDD: 8/4/2012. Missed M/C & D&C at 11w6d: 1/20/2012.
    BFP #2: 5/24/2012. EDD: 2/2/2013. Natural M/C at 6w0d: 6/9/2012.
    BFP #3: 12/6/2012. EDD: 8/19/2013. Missed M/C at 9w0d: 1/14/2013.
    BFP #4: 4/20/2013. EDD: 1/1/2014. Born at 36w3d: 12/7/2013
    BFP #5: 3/25/2015: EDD: 12/8/2015.
    image
    Lilypie - (IDGc)


  • lb1117lb1117 member
    5000 Comments 500 Love Its Fourth Anniversary Name Dropper
    I signed the petition. I don't even like in the US, but if giving my name and email means that one of the amazing ladies here gets IF covered, it's worth it. 

    @als1982, you have no idea how life changing IF has been for ILRV and many others. Unless you are going to be supportive, this wasn't the post to comment in. 
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

    TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 
    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
    Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz



  • FWIW, I didn't make the comparison. That information was copied and pasted from the petition.

    But I will say, I spent over $40k to have a baby. That includes the genetic testing of embryos to make sure that we would not have another stillborn baby. I'm not saying that it was a medical need (it was a want, I get it), but neither are other things that insurance does cover. It doesn't make sense. Other states have chosen to make IF coverage required and I wish mine would do the same.
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards