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Petition for mandatory IF coverage
***Sorry about the font on here, but I wanted to share this. See the link below to add your name to the petition.
https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/mandate-all-insurance-cover-infertility-basic-healthcare-acknowledge-infertility-disease-not-choice
Mandate All Insurance to Cover Infertility as Basic Healthcare. Acknowledge Infertility as a Disease, Not a Choice.
No one expects to receive a diagnosis of infertility, or in even more crippling times, unexplained infertility, but they do. Then we reach out to the insurance companies WE pay to help us, not expecting to be turned away, and we are. Infertility is a disease that men and women do not choose, nor do we welcome the depression, shame, and anxiety that accompany it.
It is referred to as a "pre-existing condition" that requires months, to years, of care, but how is being diagnosed with the inability to do what you were BORN to do, different than someone who has diabetes and seeks possible lifetime assistance through their insurance?
Mandate infertility coverage on a state level, so those who already suffer do not have to spend more on a second policy, just to have a dream come to life.
IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
FET - BFN
FET - BFN
Switched clinics
IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
Baby Boy born July 2015
Re: Petition for mandatory IF coverage
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
Insurance covers Viagra for erections. Erections aren't life threatening, therefore should insurance not cover that as well?
Insurance covers Viagra for erections. Erections aren't life threatening, therefore should insurance not cover that as well?
I'm not arguing that insurance should or shouldn't cover IF treatment. What I am saying is the diabetes comparison is completely flawed.
Insurance covers Viagra for erections. Erections aren't life threatening, therefore should insurance not cover that as well? I'm not arguing that insurance should or shouldn't cover IF treatment. What I am saying is the diabetes comparison is completely flawed.
I think you're nit picking and honestly should gauge your audience. IF can lead to depression, anxiety, and other life threatening diseases. But just because you don't see not having a kid as life threatening, it can't be compared to diabetes? Have you ever lost a child? Have you ever been unable to conceive for some unknown reason and been unable to afford to even find out what is wrong because insurance won't cover it? Have you been through any of the trauma IF can bring? I see no reason you can say without a doubt that IF is not life threatening with such blatant disregard for the true turmoil it puts too many people through.
It's also paid to remove some cysts on my wrist, physical therapy after said surgery, pain medication, etc.
Why shouldn't it pay for infertility, too?
ETA: Also, why is it gross that Viagra is covered? Sexual healthis also important, and not having s healthy sex life can lead to things like anxiety and depression. It's all health care.
BFP #5: 3/25/2015: EDD: 12/8/2015.
@als1982, you have no idea how life changing IF has been for ILRV and many others. Unless you are going to be supportive, this wasn't the post to comment in.
Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz
DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
But I will say, I spent over $40k to have a baby. That includes the genetic testing of embryos to make sure that we would not have another stillborn baby. I'm not saying that it was a medical need (it was a want, I get it), but neither are other things that insurance does cover. It doesn't make sense. Other states have chosen to make IF coverage required and I wish mine would do the same.
FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!