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I'm the anal budget nazi - everything is always tracked - always balances - down to the penny.
BUT stupid me never checked the bank account to make sure it matched each month. I just assumed that if the budget balances and im tracking every penny we make/spend then it would all be there - WRONG!
I thought i had about 1404.17 in a buffer/savings split between different fund. and so far this month income minus expenses is 112.91 minus 340 daycare.
That SHOULD put our bank account at about 1,177.08... NOPE its 668.72. HOW am i seriously just missing 500 dollars?!!! I don't just leave things out, i track everything - based on our banks transactions. How could I possibly have screwed up that bad?! I figured okay i must have taken some cash and put it in the safe - nope. 500 dollars just grew legs and walked away.
Now i have to go through every transaction since December and figure out what went wrong! I'm a disaster.
I've been using Everydollar.com since December. How do you balance your checking account? Is there a way to do it easier then the old fashioned way. Or at the end of the month should i just figure out what we should have and see if it matches?

Re: Oy balancing account...
We don't budget monthly, but for each individual paycheck. Upon receipt of every check we start a new budget which always includes a $150 buffer in the checking account. Anything left over from the previous budget goes to the current goal (currently H's student loan).
I use online banking to track all the transactions and I use an old fashioned check book register. I use the register because then I know what has been subtracted even if it hasn't been debited from the account yet. Also, we don't use debit cards, so we don't have a ton of transactions (just DH's direct deposits, billpays, and the occasional paper check (tuitions, church giving), and the mortgage which is on auto pay).
I would print off all your bank statements since December. Use a highlighter to mark them as you see whether or not you have listed them in your budget plan. If you have things on the statement not highlighted then they would be things you forgot to note in your budget.
Also, are you sure your starting balance in December is accurate?
Are you being charged any bank fees?
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I wouldn't completely give up. Still look thru the transactions in your bank out to look for anything suspicious... Something that you didn't purchase. My H noticed he was running out of money really quickly and didn't understand why, but also wasn't deligent about checking his account thankfully the bank caught on that someone had stolen his card number and was charging small things like gas, fast food, etc. in another state. He was able to get the money back but it went back a few months and added up to a good bit of money.
At the very least I would review transactions as far back as you think you need to and just make sure everything looks normal for what you and your H would be spending money on. After you do this and if everything looks ago I would just start fresh this month and chalk it up to a learning lesson.
From there I would check in daily/weekly/monthly, whatever works for you, to make sure you're tracking correctly and everything looks normal. Good luck!
The second was our cash envelops. When I compared the spreadsheet to the bank account it never matched because of the cash we had on hand.