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Which comes first? Paying off Debt or Saving?
I really want to pay off all our debt as soon as possible. I'm a huge Dave Ramsey enthusiast. If we really buckle down we could pay off everything in 7 years (even the mortgage).
But, I also realize that we need some savings.
I'm constantly having an internal debate trying to figure out how much to put towards loans and/or savings. Right now we can afford about $4000/mo towards either one. I've been doing about $3500 towards debt and $500 towards savings, but I'm wondering if it would be worthwhile to slow down on the debt a little and save more.
We spent all our savings for the wedding and then buying a house last year, so we only have about $3000 in savings currently. I know that's not enough, but I would rather pay off debt....
Any advice?
Re: Which comes first? Paying off Debt or Saving?
1. Save an e-fund that meets your basic needs/you are comfortable with while paying minimums on all debt
2. Group debt into high interest and low interest. Hopefully mortgage and SL are low interest. Pay off high interest debt first.
3. Does your company match retirement? Next start investing something in retirement and definitely take care of free money in the company match if they offer it. This is a priority for us over mortgage and SL because mortgage and SL rates are under 4% interest and the return on retirement investment is higher than that.
4. Increase savings to have cash on hand to buy new cars, cover emergencies, go on vacation, etc. Keep increasing retirement at the same time.
5. After savings is further built up focus on retirement according to those goals for retirement age and standard of living and tackle SL at the same time.
We are currently working on #4. After we move past 5 I think we may work on the mortgage in a less active way, like doing a couple extra payments a year. It is not a priority on our current radar.
Not stated in my plan, but something that we do, is charitable giving. It is something to also consider according to your preferences.
All of your goals will be easier if you take a look at your budget and spending and find ways to cut the fat. "Finding" extra dollars this way can go very far especially when your snowball gets rolling. If you want help with this post your budget/bills on this board and people will give you some good suggestions.
My motto is "let the interest rates be your guide!" If the debt's interest rate is higher than 6%, I'd probably go ahead and try to get that nailed down. If it is below 6%...eeh. That money would "work harder" if it went in a ROTH, where it would make at least 8-10% interest plus it would also allow you to cash in on compounding interest.
I think the type of debt matters too (I'd focus on car loans, student loans and CC way before mortgage). After the real estate bubble burst, I'm in no rush to pay off my mortgage. I wouldn't want to pump all this money into my home and then find myself in a situation where I needed cash but all I have is this house that was once $300,000 but is now worth only $120,000. In other words, I'd much rather have money in the bank than tied up in real estate.
That is awesome that you have $4k to apply towards something. If I were you, I'd definitely make sure I was contributing at least 15% of my income to retirement. After that the priorities would probably go like this (and I'd probably contribute to multiple ones at the same time vs. trying to tackle them one at a time):
1. $5k e-fund
2. Debt over 6%
3. 3 month e-fund
4. Non-mortgage debt between 3%-6%
5. 6 month e-fund
6. Any other important savings needs (home down payment, children's college funds, new car fund, expected home repair fund, etc.)
7. Non-mortgage debt under 3%
8. Extra towards retirement and other savings needs
9. 9 month e-fund
10. Even more towards retirement and other savings needs
11. Mortgage payoff
We are personally very anti-debt, but not to the detriment of our retirement savings. So, we max out both our ROTHs and put an additional 10% of our pre-tax income into our 401k/403b. After that, we put everything extra that's left toward debt. Right now, that's student loans. If we had high interest consumer debt, we'd likely lower but not eliminate completely the retirement savings in order to get that paid off.
In terms of a liquid emergency fund, we keep very little, around $1,000. But we live well below our means and can afford all of our expenses on just one of our salaries. We also have no children.
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TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Admittedly, I'm not a Dave Ramsey follower, though I do like his snowball method for paying debt.
Certainly the bare bones DR will get you out of debt faster but, if your H is uncomfortable with your savings level, maybe bare bones is not quite the way to go for you all. Decide together what savings level you all are comfortable with and in what timeframe and then adjust your payouts accordingly.
I'm also with a lot of the other PPs in regards to your mortgage. Since you just bought your house last year, I'm assuming you have a very low rate. That is cheap money. Max out what you can put toward retirement (if you don't already do that) then build a fat, cushy 6-month e-fund. Then I would recommend to maximize your return on cash by investing in mutual funds/stocks. But if you all would prefer the security of paying off your mortgage first, that is certainly an amazing goal also...just keep in mind you will only be saving the interest amount of your loan each year for that money versus probably making more than that with other investment choices.
We were not aware of that income cap and ended up with a surprise come tax time this year and we couldn't deduct any of it. Obviously we're very lucky to make more than $160k/year, but I wish we'd planned better.
Yes! This is definitely what lit the fire under us to get rid of it!!
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Agreed. The advantage to retirement contributions is time. You can never get that time back. Also, even if you upped your contributions to 15% to "make up for it", you will never get back the employer match that you missed out on.
This is why cutting retirement contributions isn't popular around here....