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Acting as your own real estate agent?

Has anyone done a for sale by owner when selling their house, or acted as their own agent when buying a house, to save the realtor fees? If so, how did it go?? Was it worth all the extra work? 
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Re: Acting as your own real estate agent?

  • You don't really save anything when buying by not using a realtor. The seller pays the fees. I would look around for somebody who will do both and only take commission on the purchase of you are really against paying those commissions. You will still have to pay for the agent representing the people buying your house. I don't think there is any way to get around that.
    The realtor is there to be your advocate, so in most instances it is worth the % that they charge. They can even help you get a deal which may save you when all is said and done, even after paying fees on the sale of your home.
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  • You don't really save anything when buying by not using a realtor. The seller pays the fees.
    I always laugh when I see people say this.  While yes it is true that is comes out of the sellers proceeds, where do you think they get that money?  It comes from the money you paid them for the property.
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    You don't really save anything when buying by not using a realtor. The seller pays the fees.

    I always laugh when I see people say this.  While yes it is true that is comes out of the sellers proceeds, where do you think they get that money?  It comes from the money you paid them for the property.


    Technically true. With that said, until I bought my first home, I had no idea how much work and paperwork was involved. I was tempted to try to go it alone, but that was vetoed by H before it even became a fully developed plan. I'm quite sure that if we had, we would not have gotten the thousands worth of repairs and savings on closing costs that my realtor negotiated for us, and we probably would have lost work time dealing with everything and lost the good will of our seller to boot. I know people who have done it successfully but for us? Not worth it.
  • If you decide to sell your house yourself, I would consider having a lawyer draw up the final papers to make sure everything goes through smoothly & is binding. The advantage of having a realtor versus selling it yourself, your house will show up on all the different websites & apps when people are looking for houses. When you are selling yourself you have to place ads online & in the paper, and realistically, how many people look for houses that way. And then it comes down to showing the house, you have to show the house yourself and answer all the questions and listen to peoples critiques of your home instead  of getting a "wasn't the right fit for them"
  • We just bought a for sale by owner house. The house was priced for market value and they offered to pay for our realtor's cut of 2.5%. So I guess in essence he will be saving himself a few thousand dollars but he still needs to pay for an attorney too. And I feel like our realtor guided him along the way as she put together most of the paperwork that needed to be signed by both parties.
  • My parents have acted as their own real estate agent through the buying/selling of 4 different homes. I think it worked for them, because 1. They have a lawyer friend who wrote up all the papers for a really good price. 2. They live in a rural area where it is more common for people to act as their own real estate agent. In nearly every case they were fortunate in finding buyers and sellers who were also representing themselves, so there were no real estate agents ever involved. They say it has saved them a lot of money, but honestly, I think they could have gotten a little more money for the last home they sold. For all the other buys/sells, I agree that it saved them money.

    For us, we used a buyer's realtor and he was worth every penny. We live in an urban area where houses in our price range are really hard to come by. Our house hunting journey was filled with several bidding wars/bad home inspections/stubborn sellers, and we ultimately had to put an offer on a house the day it went on the market (before it even had a for sale sign in the yard or made it to Trulia/Zillow). If we had not had a realtor, we would have never even known about our house before it was snatched up by someone else...plus he just helped us weather this crazy real estate market as first time buyers.

    With all that said, I think it just depends on your area, expertise, and comfort level.


  • Erikan73 said:
    If you decide to sell your house yourself, I would consider having a lawyer draw up the final papers to make sure everything goes through smoothly & is binding. The advantage of having a realtor versus selling it yourself, your house will show up on all the different websites & apps when people are looking for houses. When you are selling yourself you have to place ads online & in the paper, and realistically, how many people look for houses that way. And then it comes down to showing the house, you have to show the house yourself and answer all the questions and listen to peoples critiques of your home instead  of getting a "wasn't the right fit for them"

    I know there are companies out there that cater to "for sale by owner" people by putting your house on the MLS for a fee.  I'm assuming a fee that is substantially less than having a selling agent.

    As for buying, there is no advantage to not have an agent if there is a selling agent involved.  If the commission is 6.5%...the selling agent just keeps all of it if there is no buying agent.  At least that is the way it is in my state.

    With that said, I just bought a duplex that I initially found on Craig's List "for sale by owner".  In this case, I just contacted the seller directly.  Neither of us used an agent which was cheaper for him and, in turn, I got a great deal on the house. 

  • I think the biggest problem FSBOs face is being priced too high by the owners. If you do some research in your area for comparable homes that have sold in the last 6 months, and price your home accordingly, then buyers will look at your home more favorably. An over-priced home will make buyers not come to look. Also, most, if not all buyers, WILL have their own REA. Therefore, you will still probably pay for some kind of commission to that buying agent if that's the norm in your area. Whatever you do, you NEED to get listed on the MLS. If you don't many buyers won't ever see your home for sale online.

  • Thanks all. Yah, if we do it, we will pay to be on MLS and all the other sites. My husband did real estate about 10 years back briefly so he has an idea on how everything works. We'd use a local title place to handle all the legal doings at the end. We're in this strange pocket neighborhood where houses sell within days, and they are all just 3 different models so it's really easy to tell how much we can get. Hopefully it all works out! We'll save about 3 percent since we'll still pay the buyers agent. But I think we are going to use a buyers agent for ourselves, I just don't want to do all the work!! 
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  • Thanks all. Yah, if we do it, we will pay to be on MLS and all the other sites. My husband did real estate about 10 years back briefly so he has an idea on how everything works. We'd use a local title place to handle all the legal doings at the end. We're in this strange pocket neighborhood where houses sell within days, and they are all just 3 different models so it's really easy to tell how much we can get. Hopefully it all works out! We'll save about 3 percent since we'll still pay the buyers agent. But I think we are going to use a buyers agent for ourselves, I just don't want to do all the work!! 

    This is an important consideration for FSBO.  If it's a hot market or you're in a hot area, buyers will almost find you.

    Make sure to post it on Craig's List also.  It's free, you can post a bunch of pics, and a lot of homebuyers look there in addition to the MLS.  I certainly did when I was looking for my primary house!

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    Thanks all. Yah, if we do it, we will pay to be on MLS and all the other sites. My husband did real estate about 10 years back briefly so he has an idea on how everything works. We'd use a local title place to handle all the legal doings at the end. We're in this strange pocket neighborhood where houses sell within days, and they are all just 3 different models so it's really easy to tell how much we can get. Hopefully it all works out! We'll save about 3 percent since we'll still pay the buyers agent. But I think we are going to use a buyers agent for ourselves, I just don't want to do all the work!! 



    This is an important consideration for FSBO.  If it's a hot market or you're in a hot area, buyers will almost find you.

    Make sure to post it on Craig's List also.  It's free, you can post a bunch of pics, and a lot of homebuyers look there in addition to the MLS.  I certainly did when I was looking for my primary house!

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    I agree with short+sassy.

    H and I are looking in such a small area, we look on Realtor, Zillow, FSBO, Craigslist, regularly.
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