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Pipe dream... But requirements????
For a vacation home.
Let's say you decided to get one (again pipe dream I know I know)......
What requirements would you have besides price and location???
Distance from home ____ miles?
Be able to use _____ weeks or weekends a year?
On vacation at the beach and love looking at the real estate....... Just thinking about the future and if it's something we could do down the road and what others might feel is necessary for purchase there than money etc...
Re: Pipe dream... But requirements????
My family has waterfront property (roughly 15 acres) that my grandparents bought in the 1970's and put a home and a boat house on it. It's on a far northern lake in a north eastern state.
I can tell you from personal family experience that having a home 8-10 hours away from your primary residence is VERY difficult. My grandparent's live in Ohio. They didn't go there in the winters, but lived there full time in the summers, and nearly every year some vandals would come and break in and steal stuff in winter time. One time, someone pooped in the water tank.
Property taxes are another issue. And, now that only grandpa is still living, our family is faced with the issue of how to pass on a piece of property. It's hard - it cannot be divided like cash or stocks can. And, then there's the up keep and maintenance time, effort, and monetary costs.
DH's parents have a town home in a south western state and live in Iowa. At least they are in a gated community and don't have the vandal/theft problems. They live there in the winters. Again, they face the same issues.
A friend's family has $$$$ real estate on the Gulf coast of FL. And, they too are facing the same issues - how do you split land? Who pays for the up keep/taxes? How do you devise a visitation schedule for all parties involved? What's fair when there are 4 families dealing with one piece of property?
IF you do buy a second home, then just recognize these issues exist and don't romanticize it only thinking of all the wonderful reasons to have a 2nd home.
Furthermore, knowing you have this 2nd home and paying for it may also cause you to feel guilty if you don't spend "enough time" there and may cause you not to take other vacations. Like the problem people have with buying boats - they think they will get used, then they don't and the boat sits and sits draining money.
I don't think I would be interested in a second home, even if we had the money. We like traveling to new places, so I'd rather take this hypothetical money and use it on international travels.
But... for the sake of playing along, I'd choose a little cabin in a quaint little town by the mountains and the lake about 2-3 hours away. It is nice to get away from the city, but right now we can accomplish that by visiting my parents who live somewhere similar to what I just described.
So funny you just posted this! My coworker and I were just complaining this morning about the unbearable heat and I was telling him how much I hope to buy a cute little (but luxurious) cabin in Lake Tahoe once I retire. And become a "sun bird". Leave NOLA from May-Sept to escape the heat and live in Tahoe instead. We'd probably go out for a month or two during ski season as well.
Bonus points that Tahoe has visitors all year long and we could rent it out to vacationers when we won't be there.
We both are unusual and love visiting beach towns in the off season. It's great for bird watching, and the Cape still has many great restaurants and attractions with less crowds. We would plan to rent the cottage out for most of the summer, but visit most off-season weekends. Friends of ours who do this more than cover their mortgage with the summer rental, even with management and cleaning fees. I'd just want to wait until we had a sizable DP.
Gotcha. I wouldn't want one you had to fly to, either. And I'd definitely prioritize big trips over having a beach house financially.
I just got back from dinner last night with a good friend who just bought her third Cape house! They are all very small cottages, and she's renting two of them out constantly and keeping one to use. They're considering it part of their retirement portfolio. They have good jobs but nothing too crazy, they've just been financially savvy.
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My sister & brother in law are actually looking into this. For them they are thinking a 2-3 bedroom apartment/condo. Reason being is then no yard to have to deal with for upkeep. They want an area an area that is a hot travel spot so that they can rent it out (through a vacation property management company) when they don't want to use it. The reason they want to go through a management company for renting is from what my sister tells me, they arrange for cleaning of the unit after renters leave and can help deal with any on site issues for you. They plan to visit the areas that they are interested in possibly getting a place over the next few years. They want something that is close to local attractions, resturants & food. Because even though they are on vacation while there, they want to be able to get a few basics which for them is beer & wine & snacks...lol. The big thing is that they want to find a place that interests them enough to want to go there every year on vacation. They don't plan to spend a lot on furnishings or putting anything of personal value in it since they do plan to rent it out. Don't get me wrong, it will be nice, but they aren't about to get a high end couch know people could be eating on it, sleeping on it, or if there are kids, jumping on it. Or leave a family heirloom vase down there. The big thing is that is has to be interesting enough that after going there for 2-3 years, they aren't bored with the area.