Getting Pregnant
Amylynn3883
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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Trying To Decide On #2
Ok so, my husband and I had been planning on trying to conceive our second child this fall. We currently have one child who is seven years old. We're at the point we had planned to start trying and we're both panicking a little about it. Ok a ton. We never wanted kids close together and always assumed we'd have a second down the line, but we're at the point where its pretty much soon or never. This is due to age, and we don't want any bigger of an age gap really.
Our main anxieties focus mostly on our son. Both of us know we can care for another child, we know we can love another child, we are fine financially, etc. etc. We are worried about ruining the relationship and dynamic that we currently have with our son. The three of us are incredibly close. Our son is truly awesome. Especially myself and my son, who I stayed home with when he was not of school age yet, are incredibly close. While our son says he would like a sibling he is seven, so while he might think now it would be ok to share mom and dad we can't predict what he'll be like. Basically we're just scared to death of 'ruining' our relationship with him, pushing him away, making him feel less important, etc. I'm an only child so I am aware its not the worst thing in the world, but ideally I always wanted two as we don't have a lot of extended family. Also, I don't know the first thing about having a sibling. I just don't want to do it at the expense of losing a part of what we have right now as things are great right now.
In a perfect world we would welcome a new baby, we would go through an adjustment period, but we would end up staying just as close with our son as we are now, just welcome a new little one into our family.
Any advice or experiences!?!?
Re: Trying To Decide On #2