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Is anyone else adjusting their budgets for the school year. I do this every August as DD starts pre k and dance this week. Our grocery budget is so much better after buying 1/3 of a cow a couple months ago. In July we only spent $375 for the month on groceries. The 2 categories I would like to be strict on are eating out and random store purchases. Goal is to keep it within $150 for eating out and $150 on store purchases. I also am going to budget $120 on household items. I don't do the envelop system because I feel we stay within budget on most items already BUT I think I will take out $150 in cash every month for eating out since that is what we slip up on. Our 6 year anniversary is in October so I will pad an extra $100 in there for that.
We have to be tight on things until DH gets this building built - hoping to break ground within a couple weeks fingers crossed. He will be bringing in $3400 ($1k goes to studio rent for business) and I will be brining in $600 for private lessons and as usual all gig money I make will be split between savings and retirement.
Do you guys have any goals for the upcoming season? Fall is busy for us so I hope we can keep our goals going.
Re: Fall Budgets
@vlagrl29, good luck with breaking ground on the new building!
Fall is REALLY busy for me and H, as it has been for the last 3 weeks also, as we work on rehabbing the duplex I just bought. I'm hoping to have the larger unit ready to be rented out by October 1st and the smaller unit by November 1st.
Construction is a lot of work and time. Finding and qualifying tenants, along with conducting showings, is also a lot of time. I will be breathing a big sigh of relief once all that is done, but it's still at least a couple months out until I can return my life to a bit of normal, lol.
H is in talks with his temp employer about a FT job with potential to start in a couple of weeks. No concrete offer yet but I'm hopeful that it will come. If it does I am going to adjust the budget to start saving more for retirement and house projects, spending more on food/entertainment and maybe hire a cleaning lady.
If an offer doesn't come, it will be staying the course with the current budget.
We just had our first last December. I love DD more than anything and wouldn't change our life at all. However, there are some things I took for granted when it was just the two of us. Being able to go out to movies whenever we wanted is something I miss a lot. We love movies. Since having DD we have seen 3. Being able to take a nap in the middle of the day on Sunday while watching football on the couch was awesome. Lastly, spending quality time with DH and being able to cuddle at night. It took us 6 months to realize that we needed to make sure we got at least one date night a month where it was just the two of us. Everyone told us that we would never sleep again but no one told us to find the things we love to do now and do them as much as possible.
Having DD is the best thing that has ever happened to us and I would not change it for the world. Now, the things we love to do involve her instead of just the two of us. Being a parent is one of the most challenging but most rewarding things for me and my DH.
We don't have kids so there are no school budgets for us, but we have some household projects coming up:
-Our shed is being built and will be delivered at the end of the month so we have the final payment portion due.
- We are getting estimates on replacing our electrical panel
- We need to buy a leaf back blower as well as a roof rake and snow blower for the upcoming seasons
- get the chimney cleaned so we can start using the fireplace this fall/winter