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I am 34, just now starting to get a hold of my finance. i have no idea where to begin. I am planning on getting a fresh start the beginning of October with trying to budget.I have been reading about envelope systems and a whole lot of other stuff that gave me a migraine (literally). so i turned to the pros! you all...will you all please post your monthly budgets for me just so i can get an idea of how one looks and how much you all save and budget for food, entertainment etc.. i know every ones financial situation will be different. I'm just looking for ideas.
Re: please post your!
rent 700
car note 205.95 owe 4800.00
electric 70.00
water 45.00
netflix 8.00
cell phone 45.00
car insurance 90.00
life insurance 15.00
american express- 500.00 (300.00 balance)
groceries- 200
gas 200.00
eat out 50.00
entertainment 50.00
savings 40
Also, are the American Express numbers right? Will that be paid off at the end of the month?
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Life insurance is harder to get sometimes. If you are in excellent health then perhaps consider cutting it. But, if you aren't or if you have an on-going health problem. I'd keep the LI policy and make your cuts elsewhere...
downgrading phone, cutting cable, shaving off fun money, not eating out, etc.
Consider looking for a second part time job - the holiday seasonal employment is beginning to start.
Take your lunch to work (leftovers, fruit &sandwich etc)
Really you do not need life insurance at this point. Any life insurance you do have should be TERM life insurance ONLY!!
WHY is your car insurance 90 a month? IF your FICO credit score is poor - that increases your car insurance premium as well .
You HAVE to STOP SPENDING MORE THAN YOU TAKE IN!
You either have to increase your income or cut - and you do not have much to cut -- in fact you have not included categories like clothing, gifts, vacation, haircuts, etc.
Ditto the recommendation for Dave Ramsey's book - Total Money Makeover --- highly motivating for getting out of debt. Another good book to read is Smart Women Finish Rich --- more about aligning your finances to meet your values & goals.
You can put a small tablet in your purse and write down every purchase as you make it -
When making a purchase ask yourself:
1) Is this a NECESSARY expense? If not - STOP. If needed - then the next question is:
2) can I get it for less money (buy use, on sale, clearance, or borrow it?)
STAY OUT of the Mall - and do NOT shop online.
Pre-plan your spendng - no impulse purchases.
SAVE for your purchases - then spend.
STOP using your credit card and go to cash or debit card.
This is not going to be easy for you, but it will get better as time goes on.
IF you want your financial life to change - YOU need to change.
One recommendation I have is to call around for quotes on insurance rates. Your insurance rates seem high, but depending on where you live, your driving record & the amount of coverage you have, it might not be high.
One thing that I have found that I like is good budget. It's a free online app, but depending on how many envelopes you have, you may need to pay an annual fee. For me it's worth it because it has helped us termendously with staying within our budget. We've gone from always being in the hole to now having money left over because I can better track where the money goes. It's like an envelop system, you make a catergory for each area you spend money on. Then you just enter what you spend & under what catergory the money was for. At the end of the month you can really see how much you have spent where.
For me I find that it helps to have a set day to work on my budget. Every Monday I bring all my mail with me and at lunch time, go through the bills and take care of them. Then I go through my bank account info & enter it all into my good budget app (also accessible online). Then I can see how much do I have left for fuel, food, dining out, etc for the rest of the month. With doing this every week, I've gone from having to spend 2-3 hours every other week (when we get paid) and being frustrated to spending 30 minutes every monday doing bills and I'm actually happy when I'm done.
It will take time for you to figure out exactley where all your money is going and where you can cut back on things. But tracking where your money is going exactley is the first big thing. When figuring out your monthly budget, don't forget any annual expenses. Like license plates, for those I figure out what the annual costs is (we have two cars) divide that by 12 and that is how much a month I put away for that. When they come due, I have the money already saved up. I'm not taking a big hit in one month, because both plates are due in the same month. For me to put away $10.00 a month isn't a big deal, but to get hit with a $120.00 charge in one month, would totally mess up my budget.