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Our main car is H's 2011 Kia Forte that is close to being paid off. We use the Kia for the majority of our driving, and we carpool to work 3 days/week. My car is a 2002 Chevy Malibu that I drive 2 days/week to work and on the occasion that we both are going different places and can't coordinate carpooling with the Kia.
The Malibu has issues:
- Theft system issue when starting, which means it thinks it's being broken into and doesn't start for 10 minutes. There is no rhyme or reason for when it decides to not start right away. When it happens, we need to keep the key in the 'on' position for 10 minutes while the dashboard light flashes and I waste 10 minutes of my day. H has found videos online of ways to try to DIY fix it, but I'm not comfortable with the level of risk with that (what if something goes wrong and I'm out of a car?).
- The check coolant light comes on
- There is a known leak (what we believe to be oil, but aren't 100% sure).
- There is a recall on the ignition switch - the fix only involves filling-in the hole on the actual key so it can't go on a keychain. Found this out today, and my annoyance with this car is flaring up...
I made an appointment for an estimate on the above issues, which costs $110 (I had no idea estimates cost this much).
Our dilemma is - repair this car to use for a couple more years, or bite the bullet and purchase a car (likely a 2013-2015 used crossover or SUV)? I hate to have another car payment, but it's inevitable at some point. The non-mortgage debt we have will be paid off in the next 6 months max - entry doors in November, Kia in the next couple months, and H's SL's within 6 months (sorry, don't have exact numbers this second). We plan to start TTC in September 2016, so I'm thinking that even if a car payment makes things tighter until the other non-mortgage debt is paid off, it may be better to have the majority of the car paid off before a baby comes and my income decreases.
What would you do?

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@simpleelise gave some good suggestions. Yes, getting a recall fixed should always be free, and yes I would get this one done ASAP because of the documented cases of people who have been killed when their Chevys shut off in the middle of the interstate for this known ignition problem (not bashing Chevy, I own one).
I've never heard of being charged for an estimate, I didn't know that was a thing.
Personally, I would not even consider taking on a car payment until the other car is paid off, which it will be soon. At that time, I still don't know that I would, but if you do, I don't understand the jump between a 2002 Malibu and a 2013-15 SUV. That's going to be a pretty substantial car payment when there are a lot of less expensive options if you do decide to go that route. I certainly wouldn't get a car payment if you are still planning to only use this vehicle occasionally.
As for the OP, the list of things doesn't sound that bad. The coolant light is just probably low coolant. You could fix that yourself by going to Wal-mart or your local auto parts store and buying a bottle and pouring it in while the car is cool. Unless you have a leak, this will fix the problem.
All cars just like houses need maintenance. It is normally cheaper to do the maintenance than buy a new car if you keep up with it.
Ask the dealership if the $110 estimate is deducted from the overall cost of any repair they end up doing.
To get the ignition thing fixed due to the recall, I think you have to take it to an official Chevy dealer, correct? If so, they could do all the fixes at once. We had a Chevy Impala (I hated it), but it served its purpose until we were able to get rid of it. It had trouble, but it's always cheaper to nurse along a car then totally replace it.
I had a Chevy Cobalt that I constantly had trouble with the ignition switch. Mainly, it sometimes would not turn out of the locked position, especially in cold weather. I even had a valet driver break my key in the ignition because of the problem, lol. They got it fixed for me and even paid for my cab ride both ways.
Then, it was a few months after that all the hoopla about the bad ignition switches started coming out. Scary stuff!
If you can afford it, repair your car. Then when Kia is paid off, put the montly payments aside into savings. You didn't have the money before, you won't miss having it. Then when either car needs repairs or mainetenance you can take from those funds. Or if you decide after a few months, you've had enough of your car, you'll have your car plus whatever money you've put aside to put down towards a newer vehicle for you.
I did cancel the $110 estimate and have taken my key off the chain for the ignition issue.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
No idea if any other states do this, but just wanted to point it out in case it applied. I've had a few friends hit by this.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Where I live in NOLA, our auto ins. is crazy high because we have a much higher than average percentage of uninsured motorists on the road. For example, I have a perfect driving record, but my comp./coll. is $210/month. And it would be another $25/month if I didn't pay my 6-month premium up front.
I was in an accident about ten years ago. 100% the other driver's fault. She gave me her up to date insurance card. Or at least it looked up to date. So I called her insurance later that day to report the accident. NOPE! No insurance. The agent told me she had paid for the first month and gotten her card...then never paid again so it was cancelled.
I had someone call me the day they got pulled over, to get insurance. She received a ticket for no insurance. She paid the first months' premium, went to court and proved she had insurance on that date, then never paid it again. She drops her daughter off for dance 1/week right in front of our office. We joke to not get into an accident with her, because we know she doesn't have insurance.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Yeah, the bank where I work is pretty on top of this. We track insurance coverage regularly, and if it's discovered that a loan holder does not have it on their collateral, we will 'place' insurance on their behalf--at the customer's expense. It's super-expensive and has resulted in more than a handful of customers rushing in to get their insurance renewed so they don't have to pay for the force-placed insurance.
Wow! I've heard of such things (restitution), but I figured the person owed the money is usually just SOL the majority of the time. That's great you eventually got the money back.
I had a former boss who was rear-ended by a guy at like 10AM on Sunday morning. The guy was already super drunk (or maybe leftover drunk from Sat.). They exchanged information, but then the guy got antsy knowing the police were coming and took off. When the officer arrived, he asked my boss if he had any of the guy's information.
My boss hands the officer the guy's driver's license and insurance information. In his drunken haste to leave, the guy had forgotten to retrieve those items!