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Offer #3- updated in comments

edited December 2015 in Money Matters
So we just accepted offer number 3 on our house.... We have just had the most rotten luck so far, I'm really hoping that this one goes through. We would be really close to paying off the house we live in by selling this rental property, and that would be really nice with the uncertainty in the oil industry right now. Anyways, here's hoping and praying! 7 day option period starts now, with closing set for January 20.
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Re: Offer #3- updated in comments

  • Good luck!  Unfortunately with real estate, sometimes it's just bad luck.  There is all kinds of crazy stuff that can happen before closing to harpoon the deal.

    But what's that old saying?...Third time's the charm ;).

  • Good luck!  I really hope this one goes without a hitch.

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  • Third time's a charm.  Good luck!
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  • It also just occurred to me that, as frustrating as it is, you are at least regularly getting offers!  That tells me the house is priced correctly and it will really only be a matter of time (of course, hopefully this time!).
  • That's what I keep telling myself! We have it priced right, there is really nothing I can do about people's financing falling through. It's frustrating that lenders don't check better all the times I guess.
    Some of the feedback we have gotten on the house though is just funny to me. It's a weirdly laid out community, with small lots and an alley system. So my house isn't even seen from the Main Street, we are at the end of the alley up against the bayou. That was something I loved about the house, it was quiet, had fewer neighbors, and had a slightly bigger yard because we were the end lot. We have gotten all sorts of comments about how they don't like those things. To each their own I guess :)
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  • That's what I keep telling myself! We have it priced right, there is really nothing I can do about people's financing falling through. It's frustrating that lenders don't check better all the times I guess. Some of the feedback we have gotten on the house though is just funny to me. It's a weirdly laid out community, with small lots and an alley system. So my house isn't even seen from the Main Street, we are at the end of the alley up against the bayou. That was something I loved about the house, it was quiet, had fewer neighbors, and had a slightly bigger yard because we were the end lot. We have gotten all sorts of comments about how they don't like those things. To each their own I guess :)

    It is!  Getting a preapproval for a loan versus going through underwriting is like the difference between saying "Ah" at a general doctor's office and having brain surgery.  The very first house I was under contract on fell through because, when the contract went to underwriting, they turned me down...even though I had been preapproval by them.  No explanation.  Everything was the same...credit score, income, debt to income, etc.

    On a good note, although I was crushed at the time, it was a huge blessing in disguise.  The house I ended up buying was half the price and in a neighborhood I liked better.  It isn't quite as big and did need more work, but the appreciation has also been better.

    But my take-away from that experience was how arbitrary the underwriting process can be.

  • Good luck!

    There are actually a lot of lending changes going on right now nationwide so it's a bit of a cluster.
  • And BTW both when I was selling my condo, and when we sold our house, I would get so irritated at some of the comments.  "We don't like the paint color" (ok so paint over it, it cost me a whole $800 to paint the entire condo).  or "There's too many stairs" (what did you think you were getting when looking at a top floor condo unit?).

    My house only had 3 people look at it as the first people submitted an over asking offer, so I let the 2nd and 3rd showings that day know we had an offer.  The third showing's feedback said "Nice house but not nice enough to get into a bidding war over".  I'm like WTF of COURSE my house is nice enough to get into a bidding war over LOL.  
  • Good luck, I hope everything works out well !
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    And BTW both when I was selling my condo, and when we sold our house, I would get so irritated at some of the comments.  "We don't like the paint color" (ok so paint over it, it cost me a whole $800 to paint the entire condo).  or "There's too many stairs" (what did you think you were getting when looking at a top floor condo unit?).

    My house only had 3 people look at it as the first people submitted an over asking offer, so I let the 2nd and 3rd showings that day know we had an offer.  The third showing's feedback said "Nice house but not nice enough to get into a bidding war over".  I'm like WTF of COURSE my house is nice enough to get into a bidding war over LOL.  

    I used to watch Property Virgins on HGTV and I thought those were exaggerations for the show when I would hear people make such dumb comments.  Like...really?  They want to spend $50K more for house A because they like the paint colors better?  Or because it has hardwood floors?  Ummm...I'd rather spend a little money to make it the house I want than buy a way more expensive house that's "perfect".  But my realtor tells me I'd be surprised at the little and odd things that will turn people off.

    It was actually a good learning experience because I watched the show long before I bought my own house.  It gave me an eye for looking at the bones of a house and what I could/couldn't easily change about any aspect I didn't like. 

    I sure wish I got comments back from when I do showings for potential tenants, but that is rare unless they are making positive comments.

    To the bolded:  Going a little off topic, but my current tenant is being like that.  She is complaining to me that the unit is too small for her and her family.  (Well that's funny, because it has always been an 825 sq ft, 2bd/1ba).  And the rent's too much.  That she sees other 2 bedrooms in our area for $900, instead of $1100.  (Yeah, and?  Why didn't you rent one of those to begin with then?)  Oh, I know.  Because you wanted the list of amenities and perks that are rare to find even in units more expensive than mine (rolling eyes). 

  • Good luck! Fingers crossed for you!
  • Good luck!


    There are actually a lot of lending changes going on right now nationwide so it's a bit of a cluster.
    I know :( right now I just want to take it one step at a time.... Inspection, appraisal, bank underwriting, etc.... Im actually surprised they think they are able to do a January 20 closing, although a 2 month closing would put me either in or just out of the hospital after my csection so I'm hoping this all works out!
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  • And BTW both when I was selling my condo, and when we sold our house, I would get so irritated at some of the comments.  "We don't like the paint color" (ok so paint over it, it cost me a whole $800 to paint the entire condo).  or "There's too many stairs" (what did you think you were getting when looking at a top floor condo unit?).


    My house only had 3 people look at it as the first people submitted an over asking offer, so I let the 2nd and 3rd showings that day know we had an offer.  The third showing's feedback said "Nice house but not nice enough to get into a bidding war over".  I'm like WTF of COURSE my house is nice enough to get into a bidding war over LOL.  

    Just goes to show, you can't fix stupid I guess!
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  • Good luck!!!!
  • Good luck!! I feel you. We just moved in to our house this past weekend. We sold ours and bought at the same time, that was horrible. Our first buyers pulled out a week before closing because they realized there wasn't a place to park their third car. They knew that when they bought the house!! I was so mad. And then due to all the lendor changes going on right now, our closing on our new place got pushed back a week. Buying/selling is the worst thing ever. Fingers crossed third time is the charm! 
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  • Good luck!! I feel you. We just moved in to our house this past weekend. We sold ours and bought at the same time, that was horrible. Our first buyers pulled out a week before closing because they realized there wasn't a place to park their third car. They knew that when they bought the house!! I was so mad. And then due to all the lendor changes going on right now, our closing on our new place got pushed back a week. Buying/selling is the worst thing ever. Fingers crossed third time is the charm! 

    WOW.  That is just unbelievable.  It seems like such a minor thing to blow up a big deal...like buying a house...over.  I hope you got to keep their earnest money.

  • Good luck!! I feel you. We just moved in to our house this past weekend. We sold ours and bought at the same time, that was horrible. Our first buyers pulled out a week before closing because they realized there wasn't a place to park their third car. They knew that when they bought the house!! I was so mad. And then due to all the lendor changes going on right now, our closing on our new place got pushed back a week. Buying/selling is the worst thing ever. Fingers crossed third time is the charm! 

    WOW.  That is just unbelievable.  It seems like such a minor thing to blow up a big deal...like buying a house...over.  I hope you got to keep their earnest money.

    Nope. They hadn't signed one thing, so they kept their deposit. I just wish bad karma on them lol In the end, it was sold for the same amount the first buyers had offered, and we still go the house we wanted. It was just all a pain in the butt!! 

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  • Good luck!! I feel you. We just moved in to our house this past weekend. We sold ours and bought at the same time, that was horrible. Our first buyers pulled out a week before closing because they realized there wasn't a place to park their third car. They knew that when they bought the house!! I was so mad. And then due to all the lendor changes going on right now, our closing on our new place got pushed back a week. Buying/selling is the worst thing ever. Fingers crossed third time is the charm! 

    WOW.  That is just unbelievable.  It seems like such a minor thing to blow up a big deal...like buying a house...over.  I hope you got to keep their earnest money.

    Nope. They hadn't signed one thing, so they kept their deposit. I just wish bad karma on them lol In the end, it was sold for the same amount the first buyers had offered, and we still go the house we wanted. It was just all a pain in the butt!! 

    Oh I'm surprised!  Different areas might have different customs, but for every real estate purchase agreement I've signed the earnest money is only returned under specific circumstances outlined in the contract.  I mean, they're pretty broad and big ones...like a financing contingency and/or an inspection contingency.  But a "meh, I changed my mind because I forgot I have three cars" would not have gotten me my earnest money back, lol.

    At least everything worked out in the end!







  • Good luck!! I feel you. We just moved in to our house this past weekend. We sold ours and bought at the same time, that was horrible. Our first buyers pulled out a week before closing because they realized there wasn't a place to park their third car. They knew that when they bought the house!! I was so mad. And then due to all the lendor changes going on right now, our closing on our new place got pushed back a week. Buying/selling is the worst thing ever. Fingers crossed third time is the charm! 

    WOW.  That is just unbelievable.  It seems like such a minor thing to blow up a big deal...like buying a house...over.  I hope you got to keep their earnest money.


    Nope. They hadn't signed one thing, so they kept their deposit. I just wish bad karma on them lol In the end, it was sold for the same amount the first buyers had offered, and we still go the house we wanted. It was just all a pain in the butt!! 



    Oh I'm surprised!  Different areas might have different customs, but for every real estate purchase agreement I've signed the earnest money is only returned under specific circumstances outlined in the contract.  I mean, they're pretty broad and big ones...like a financing contingency and/or an inspection contingency.  But a "meh, I changed my mind because I forgot I have three cars" would not have gotten me my earnest money back, lol.

    At least everything worked out in the end!

    Yeah, that really sucks. I would be pushed at my own realtor, and looking at the contract on my own. It may be worth going to small claims court over.
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  • Good luck!! I feel you. We just moved in to our house this past weekend. We sold ours and bought at the same time, that was horrible. Our first buyers pulled out a week before closing because they realized there wasn't a place to park their third car. They knew that when they bought the house!! I was so mad. And then due to all the lendor changes going on right now, our closing on our new place got pushed back a week. Buying/selling is the worst thing ever. Fingers crossed third time is the charm! 

    WOW.  That is just unbelievable.  It seems like such a minor thing to blow up a big deal...like buying a house...over.  I hope you got to keep their earnest money.

    Nope. They hadn't signed one thing, so they kept their deposit. I just wish bad karma on them lol In the end, it was sold for the same amount the first buyers had offered, and we still go the house we wanted. It was just all a pain in the butt!! 

    Oh I'm surprised!  Different areas might have different customs, but for every real estate purchase agreement I've signed the earnest money is only returned under specific circumstances outlined in the contract.  I mean, they're pretty broad and big ones...like a financing contingency and/or an inspection contingency.  But a "meh, I changed my mind because I forgot I have three cars" would not have gotten me my earnest money back, lol.

    At least everything worked out in the end!

    Yeah, that really sucks. I would be pushed at my own realtor, and looking at the contract on my own. It may be worth going to small claims court over.
    I'm in California, and they hadn't signed the HOA contingency release yet. We were trying not to push them because we didn't want them to pull from the deal, but they were a week late signing that, which was only a week before closing, and that's when they pulled. So, since they hadn't signed it, they got to keep their deposit. Totally lame. 
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  • Pp, that is so frustrating!!!!
    Out inspection is tomorrow. Im hoping for some minor repairs but nothing major.
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  • Update: we made it through the inspection. They found 2 small things they wanted fixed and I offered them a little bit of money. I'm so happy they took it because otherwise it would have meant dragging ds up to the house for possibly 2 days and sitting there waiting on contractors to show up. Not something I wanted to do! Now the appraisal is today, and I can't wait to hear what they say.
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