Hey Nesties! It's been a while (I've been traveling for work) but we're facing a retirement puzzle and I'm hoping some of you have similar experiences/knowledge to share. A "financial advisor" we have access to through H's work has been selling us hard on buying universal life insurance as an investment vehicle. I've been pretty skeptical because a) she works on commission and b) I've heard that those are rarely a good idea. However, we are in the market for life insurance that isn't tied to our employers, and this seems tempting.
H would be the policy-holder. He's 30 and quite healthy (no smoking, little drinking). We just took on a mortgage and hope to have children in the next couple years. If we're going to buy something permanent, now seems like the time. We're also trying to ramp up our retirement contributions, and are at a bit of a loss for how. As of this paycheck we're maxing out both H's 401k and my TSP (similar to a 401k, for federal gov't employees). Our income is too high to get a roth IRA and this is being pitched to us as an alternative for tax-free earnings.
Essentially, we'd pay a flexible monthly premium (probably $1000/month now, then $500/month in 5 years). This would give us a face value of around $700k after we vest in 7 years. However, we'd also get a guaranteed 4% interest rate on our contributions (in reality it hasn't dipped below 6% in over 20 years). We could then "borrow" from the account in retirement, essentially lowering the death benefit. Those earnings aren't taxed and whatever is left when we die would go to our beneficiaries tax-free. You do pay a small amount of interest on those loans, but again that just comes out of the eventual payout. That 4% is before fees, but the projections they showed us based on the average return has us getting paid out at around $1.2million. We've priced out a similar program offered by USAA, but the returns are lower (only 1% guaranteed) and we'd have less flexibility with our premium. We like that flexibility because there's a good chance our incomes will continue to increase for the next 3-5 years then fall to around $150k/year and stay there.
Everything I've read says that these are usually not a good idea... except for higher income folks who are maxing out their traditional retirement contributions and don't qualify for roth investments. Obviously the idea of a guaranteed minimum return is really tempting, we need life insurance anyway, and I do want to be more diversified in terms of our tax burden. On the other hand, I really don't want to get scammed or fall prey to a high pressure sales pitch. If we don't buy one of these products we will probably both just get term insurance, which I know is what's usually considered the best way to go.
I know this is seriously a FWP, and I'm really grateful to be in a position to worry about this, but I also feel in over my head and I don't know where to go for objective advice.
Help?
Re: Whole/Universal Life Insurance?
What was this came down to for us is, essentially you are overpaying for life insurance by 10k every year. What makes this even worse, is that for the first several years, a lot of that extra $ disappears and goes towards fees, commissions, etc. If you have a decent financial advisor you should be able to find a fund making more than 6% on average, and the money left over from the fund all survived you and goes to heirs or spouse (as opposed to well, you took a loan out, which was neat because we don't tax you on it- duh, it's a loan, and then we diminish your death benefits by the loan).
Hope that makes sense. We decided we can invest 10k a year much better than an insurance company can.
I would do term life as others posted. And, get a policy on BOTH of you. Both policies should cover major debts, as well as funeral expenses, and any future major living expenses or education expenses for your future kids.
Why on both of you?
Because let's say one of you dies and the other has to go work full time and you need to pay for child care.
DH has $1.6M and I have $330k. We have 3 kids under age 6. I do not work outside the home.
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