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Monday Accountability Post
Just realized we didn't do this today.
1) How MM was your weekend?
2) Any progress toward goals?
3) How much would somebody need to offer you to make you move from your current residence? Timeline to move is 30 days

Re: Monday Accountability Post
I ended up spending $30 on pizza for myself, my sister and an aunt and uncle who stopped by.
2. Nope. Although we got word on Friday that we are good to close on the 20th!!!! So the mortgage on our current residence should be paid off by the end of the month
3. Considering I'm having a csection in 3 weeks, like 10 million! It would have to be some absolutely astronomical number to convince me to pack shit up and get out of here. Enough for me to hire everything done, and find a nice move in ready house in the same neighborhood. (Mind you our house is worth probably around 325, so that would be absolutely astronomical!)
- Not bad. $22 on groceries. $10 on a new scarf. H spent $28 eating out, but it was on a gift card. And $858 on our Vegas trip, but that was budgeted. Kind of.
2) Any progress toward goals?
- No paycheck this week, but we got a really good deal on our Vegas trip. We pulled the trigger earlier than expected, but we extended our trip by a day and saved $800. I'll call that a win!
3) How much would somebody need to offer you to make you move from your current residence? Timeline to move is 30 days
- Honestly, if someone would pay what we paid and cover our commissions to make it as if we never bought it, I'd move in a heartbeat. We don't have buyers remorse necessarily, but we bought too much house. I still really like our house, but more than 60% of it sits empty and unused. It's just kind of wasteful for us.
2. Nothing this week, or really next. And yeah, the market. Bummer.
3. $250,000. Bought in 2009 for $169,000, appraised for $185,000 in 2015. We aren't really 'stuff' people so we could move easily and quickly, but I do love our cozy little house!
1) How MM was your weekend?
Good! $118 on groceries, H spent $40 on a tool table/cabinet (amazing deal!)
2) Any progress toward goals?
Not this week. Staying on budget.
3) How much would somebody need to offer you to make you move from your current residence? Timeline to move is 30 days
We're actually trying to figure that out since we're looking to list in the spring/summer!
1. $16 Gas, $60 Target, $17 Panera, $80 dogs monthly meds
2. $100 to vacation, $250 to savings
3. Ugh we just moved in! LOL. We owe about $200K, so I would need at least $350K to cover all the costs of doing this whole process again...not sure I'd even want the hassle, plus I love our house and don't want to give it up! It's perfect for us.
Good. Friday we used a coupon to eat at Noodles so it only cost $10. We would have spent more but H forgot his wallet so we had to use the cash I had on hand. We ended up adding chicken to only one order and then sharing the chicken.
Saturday $4 for city parking to attend a wedding. Oh my. If I would have posted the details of this wedding from the FB invitation on TK, I think I would have made TK explode.
We did not attend the pay for your own lunch "reception" because we were already committed to a party.
Next stop was an annual Christmas party with friends. $5 for ingredients for party food (potluck) and $20 for a gift exchange game.
H and I were the only couple that did the $20 gift exchange as a team and I'm glad we did it that way instead of as individuals because it was fun to participate but more MM to only spend $20 total instead of $40. And the gifts were a mixed bag. Some were real duds. We ended up with a hard cider/root beer 6 pack and a couple of other things including an adult coloring book (that we don't want). I googled the coloring book and am optimistic we can return it to Target to get some cash for it. Assuming the return works I'm pretty happy with a 6 pack and some Target store credit.
We had a BnB guest arrive on Sunday so that will help with bills and staying the course this month.
I would sell for a $50K or so profit.
Edited to clarify wedding and Christmas party were 2 separate events on Saturday.
Wait, wait. I'm trying to process this. So there was a "pay for your own lunch" reception (that you all bypassed) and, on top of that, $5 dollars needed to be "donated" for the rest of the party food? I hope all the gifts in the exchange were worth $20. And this wasn't another money grab where each gift cost more like $10-$15 and the excess was pocketed.
I know I'm preaching like TK, but whatever happened to couples just hosting a lovely reception themselves and not expecting their guests to subsidize the party?
We have the Christmas party every year for our group and it is always a potluck. My potluck contribution cost $5. And we did the gift exchange for $20. Everyone was supposed to do $20 value if they participated. I'll go back and edit my original to fix this!
Oh! Okay! That makes a lot more sense and brings back my faith in humanity, lol.
My work switched me from salary to hourly, then decided to argue that I owed them for my extra days off last year, that I had told them not to pay me for but they did anyways (they and I had been keeping track of them). So I worked 14 days in this payperiod, but they deducted 56 hours because they paid me for 7 days I didn't work in 2015. It wasn't discussed until January 4th, so it really messed with our budget for this month. I'm not happy.
H also will not have any overtime this month, so we don't have that buffer either. So our goal this month is to try and pay everything without dipping into savings, but I don't think it will happen.
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Ya know, for those of you who rent, it is not unheard of for landlords to sometimes buy tenants out of their leases. Though usually the tenant is still under a lease with a good bit of time left, not month to month.
You'll most typically see something like this come up either right before or right after a property is changing ownership.
I'm a little late to the party.