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So I've been reading various blogs where families decided to do a month long no spending challenge. Some just did no spending on groceries, others did no spending at all. Has anybody here done this?
I'm trying to convince H that we should do one. I think I could make it, but his response was "I could only make it if I slept for the entire month, and I'm not a bear and winter's almost over". I'm also thinking about doing a no grocery spending challenge, but again, I'm not sure he'd be down with that either... maybe he'll start traveling again so I can try it? haha.
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Between his "bear and winter" comment and his "chips and salsa" comment, I am totally cracking up over here. He and I are definitely kindred spirits in that regard.
It's always interesting to read those kinds of stories, but it just isn't for me. Though I think that kind of exercise can be valuable because it forces people to think a little outside the box. They get creative (in a good way) in their food choices and their entertainment. I think it can also underline the little things people spend money on, without even realizing it, until they aren't allowed to use money for a month.
The closest I have come, and it's not that close, is cutting back on what I buy at the grocery store to force us to go through more of the food in our pantry/freezer.
And now that we are in a mode of less spending we have drastically cut our dining out budget. We are doing really well this month, especially since we went out three times this month without paying: one was a mystery shop and the others we used coupons for free fast food meals.
We could probably do no entertainment for a month since we do so many things that are free anyway, but we wouldn't want to put that much of a damper on our social life. Like last week we met friends for drinks. We enjoyed catching up with them and think it was worth buying a couple drinks for that kind of spend in the entertainment category.
H and I couldn't go the entire month without buying gas but, if we wanted to, we could put effort into making the gas go further. So I guess a "spend less" challenge would be better for us than a "no spend" challenge.
Or next month we were planning to buy tickets to a fundraiser dinner, well now we got on the volunteer list so we are still doing that event but for free.
the people that I know who have done this recognize that they obviously need food, but that they are also tempted too much to buy non-essentials if they go out shopping every week. by stocking up and then avoiding the store they remove that regular temptation. I think the practice for some people is to remove opportunity to spend because they overspend.