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MM and simple landscaping
We need to do something with our landscaping. The backyard has 3 flower bed areas with rough grade that came with the house. There is dirt with rocks and pieces of random stuff/debris mixed in. We want something super low maintenance. If I go with a nice green, hearty ground cover type plant do you think it will grow in the rough grade? H thinks we need to replace the top of it with store bought dirt so it will grow. Weeds currently grow there with no problems. If we need new dirt, fine, but I don't want to spend more on this than necessary.
I would also appreciate any landscaping/gardening tips for making these ground cover "flower beds" as low maintenance as possible. Ideas of how to keep weeds out? I'm hoping the ground cover grows nicely and keeps the weeds away, but that probably isn't realistic thinking. Any specific ground cover plant recommendations?
Thanks!
Re: MM and simple landscaping
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Rough grade is basically the type of ground/dirt you see at a new construction site. It is not ideal for landscaping.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Backyard has a good deal of sun. Front (nice soil, different project but probably possibly still involving ground cover plants) is fairly shady.
If you're looking for MM and the beds are rough anyways, what about making 1 or 2 of them into just plan old grass? Aside from watering to get it established, and then mowing it's very inexpensive and low maintenance. You would remove the large things in the beds and till up the soil to make a nice seed bed, you may need to till in some nicer top soil. Then buy whatever grass seed works in your area at Home Depot or Lowe's. Grass seed is super cheap.
For the bed(s) that remain you could plant a perennial wild flower mixture to attract butterflies and bumble bees. Those are typically low maintenance too.
Whatever you do, the brunt of your elbow grease and cost will be up front getting the soil ready. If you aren't willing to make the soil good, then anything you plant will struggle to grow and take off and your efforts and money will be lost.
You could also plant pine trees. They require no maintenance. But if you plant a tree, verify its mature height and width and be sure it doesn't interfere with any underground piping or wiring or your foundation. What you see above the ground in terms of branches, is what usually happens underground with the root system.
How big are each of the beds?
You could just rent a tiller for a day or two and then plant the grass. Grass seed is very cheap and it comes in large bags.
Any project you do will take some time. You're not going to be able to buy some seeds and just toss them onto the unprepared ground. And, if you decided to buy spreading plants for ground cover, they aren't going to grow in places they cannot penetrate into. Even if you got a tough ground cover, you would still need to make a seed bed for it or it wouldn't grow well and would likely come in spotty. Top soil isn't that expensive either if you had to mix some in when you tilled the ground. If you don't prepare the ground properly, you will be fighting nature (wind, rain washing seeds away, if the seeds are put in too shallow, they will bake in the sun, birds eating them, etc.) and nature always wins. But it is definitely a project you could tackle in a weekend or two. The other benefit is that once grass is properly started, it is very low cost and maintenance. It sounds like you don't want to do much with these beds. As good as ground cover sounds, if you did prepare for it in the soil, it may encroach into the rest of your yard (it's hard to know exactly, because I don't know what your yard looks like and which places you're trying to keep open for use). So, you might eventually be having to cut it back, thus creating on-going work.
The other option, while more expensive than a bag of grass seed would be to try sod. You would still need to prep the ground, but sod, if properly watered, tends to do even better than seed.
Thanks all for your responses. I see that H is right in that it isn't as easy as just planting something. We will have to put the work and some $ into making the space a nice place for plants to grow. I do want to tackle this ourselves though instead of hiring someone.
I'm thinking of having one bed as wild flowers or some other kind of flowers, maybe of the bulb variety. I can keep up with weeding one bed in return for some beautiful flowers to look at. Then the other bed some kind of ground cover, maybe one that flowers a little. And the higher parts, just something easy and functional but that won't get overgrown. Time to do research!
Any suggestions for success in preventing weeds in the flower bed (the one I think I will plant flowers in)? Mulch around the flowers? Preen first? Black plastic under the mulch?