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When to start looking for a new company?
I've been with my company for almost 11 years. I've been very blessed that they have been very flexible with my husbands career in the Coast Guard, management is flexible and all in all we're pretty well taken care of. Except, I've been the same level for probably 8 years. I've mentioned it to the many managers I've had over the past 8 years. Every review I mention that I'm working hard to advance, etc, etc. I've been told that I'm doing the work of the next level, they just are on a freeze. I've been through probably 5 different managers in the last 10 years. So every time I feel like I start over having to prove my work. I'm also clueless as to how I would even go about applying for a new job and how do I know if the compensation would be anywhere near what I get paid now? I sometimes feel like they know we wont go anywhere so they don't need to advance us. Thoughts? I also know how lucky I am to have had a career for 11 years with the same company as a military spouse. But I also don't want to be taken advantage of either. If that makes sense.
Re: When to start looking for a new company?
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
People have different personalities for this kind of thing but, as someone who has had some really miserable work situations, I will take pleasant coworkers/nice work environment/secure job any day over more money and more advancement opportunities.
I'm certainly not saying you shouldn't look and maybe put your resume out there, just pointing out that if you are happy overall at work, that should be a strong deciding factor also.
However, my H does commute an hour to that city and his job is very cutthroat and don't let him leave unless it's a dire emergency. So we figure it's worth it for at least 1 of us to have the flexible job, even though I could make more by getting a job closer to his.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com