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Hospital stay and HDHP FTW
I had a minor incident a couple weeks ago (I'm fine it wasn't anything big---dizziness mostly) and took an ambulance from work to the hospital where I stayed one night.
As an overall healthy person this was the first time I really put the HDHP to the test.
The bills are in and total charged was about $13,700.
Insurance rate was $3,300 (does this mean people without insurance pay $13,700?....wow)
Family deductible $2,600 and then 80% coverage kicks in
I'll be paying $2,742 "out of pocket" (actually out of HSA since we have the money in there)
I looked at the numbers and the more expensive, $1,500 deductible plan would have me pay $2,128 out of pocket, or $614 less. But when you consider per paycheck payments are $1,430 lower annually on HDHP we come out ahead on HDHP even paying a little more "out of pocket." And then when you take into account that my work puts $1,000 into our HSA account each year HDHP is clearly the better plan here even with the big hospital bills coming in.
Re: Hospital stay and HDHP FTW
We live in a LCOL area, but it's almost like the hospitals know we don't have any other option, so they price gouge with everything.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Home births scare the hell of out of me and here's why. Sorry, sorry, sorry for the scary pregnancy tale to those of you expecting. My mother had a totally normal and healthy pregnancy with me. However, when I was born, a blood vessel ruptured but it was not immediately detected because she was bleeding internally.
About 30 minutes after she had been wheeled into her room, she mentioned to a nurse she was feeling a little tired. The nurse took her blood pressure and my mom watched as the nurse's face turned white. She not only hit the emergency button, but went running into halls yelling for a doctor.
Fortunately, they were able to stabilize my mother in time, but it was a very close call. If she had given birth at home, she would have died.
Don't get me wrong, I'm sure the vast majority of home births are just fine, but crazy things happen and its a lot better to be in a hospital already if they do.
@csuave, I'm glad to hear everything is fine, but what a bummer to go through that!
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
I should clarify that I still love the ACA. We just have bad luck and a somewhat unusual situation working against us. I realized it didn't sound that way when I read it back. My main point was just that health care plans vary a ton, even within regions. Glad you've got a good one!
After we were sure all the bills were in, I added up my actual payments and I think we came out about $4500 or so as well with our HDHP.
The only thing that sucked in our case is that our OB required a payment plan (or paid in full) for our portion of the charges over the course of the pregnancy. Well, the hospital beat them to the billing and mailed us a bill for the portion the insurance said we owed. Made a call to the OB and they issued a check in short order and without grief, but it was still annoying.
Not at all pregnancy or medical related, but I had the same thing happen when I bought a car out of state. I live in Louisiana, but bought a previous car off E-bay (of all things). It was a Houston dealership selling the car, so I flew there and drove back.
The dealership insisted I HAD to pay Louisiana state sales tax to them, but not the parish (county) tax, because there is some kind of reciprocal agreement between the two states. I argued pretty hard against it because it was really only adding extra hassle and extra steps when, either way, the taxes have to be paid before I can register the car anyway...and they weren't even collecting the full taxes. But no.
Here is how stupid this was!!!! If I was just paying the taxes myself, I could have gone at any time to register my car and get a permanent plate. However, NOW, I needed to wait for the state to receive the check from dealership.
And the best part. They royally screwed up and never sent the check to Louisiana (rolling eyes)! I found this out when I called for them to send me another paper dealer plate because mine was about to expire and the state still hadn't received their check. They overnighted me a check for the taxes. And made it payable to me, lol. So much for that reciprocal agreement.