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AW: 3 months without pay

My extended maternity leave request was granted! We are still hashing out the exact return date but I asked for 6 months and they agreed on 5. I get 8 weeks paid and the rest is vacation time/unpaid. I have never been so excited to not have an income!!!

Re: AW: 3 months without pay

  • That's amazing! Congrats that your company was so flexible and that you have the ability to afford it- good planning momma!  :)

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  • That's amazing!  That is precious time you'll be able to really bond with the little.  I was so glad I was able to SAH with DD.
  • Thank you! Hubs and I are psyched. He'll take 3 months after me (fully paid due to an insane amount of built up sick time) so now he can get planning with his employer too. 

    I wish I could take full credit for planning. We started paying daycare costs to our savings when we started trying, but if we had gotten pregnant when we started trying we would have only done regular leaves. Our infertility journey gave us time to save up for the extra time off - IVF did have a silver lining! 
  • Congrats!

    I initially read the subject line and I'm like who the heck celebrates not getting paid? lol
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  • Congrats!

    I had originally thought you were going to leave your job entirely, I take it that changed?

    That is especially nice that both you and your H can take a big chunk of time off to spend with the LO. 

  • That is so awesome!  You will not regret that time off at all. 

    I swear, I'm all for a 1 year maternity leave.  Granted this is my own personal experience, but I probably wouldn't be coming home with #2 if I had the option to take a year off and go back to my job.

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  • Congrats!

    I had originally thought you were going to leave your job entirely, I take it that changed?

    That is especially nice that both you and your H can take a big chunk of time off to spend with the LO. 

    We had looked into whether or not me as a SAHM would make sense and it really just doesn't. My base salary is about $20k more than my husband's and we want to do too many things that we need that money. We could afford for me to take a couple of years off, but it would be tight and then I would have to eventually find a new job. I actually LOVE my job and my coworkers so knowing I'm coming back to a great place is worth having a shorter than ideal leave. 5 months is actually much longer than most of my US friends have gotten so I appreciate that (even if my Canadian girlfriends all get a year...)

    brij2006 said:
    That is so awesome!  You will not regret that time off at all. 

    I swear, I'm all for a 1 year maternity leave.  Granted this is my own personal experience, but I probably wouldn't be coming home with #2 if I had the option to take a year off and go back to my job.
    I think we will reevaluate once we have more than one kid. Depending on where we stop (anywhere from 2-4 kids) the daycare alone will start to make working less cost effective. 
  • yeah if we ever have a 2nd kid I will most likely stop teaching for the first year anyways.
  • Congrats! What a great opportunity. I only have 3.5 weeks left and going back is going to be ROUGH. I love my career and SAH permanently isn't something I would consider, but I agree that a year like they get in Canada would be perfect. 
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