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rosecoloredglasses81
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How Do I Confront Hubby on this
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I'm nosey and insecure even without a reason to be. I've started arguments before over nothing plenty of times. And at first it never seems like nothing. Is this one of those times? I'm not sure.
I shouldn't do it but I can't help myself. Every great once in awhile, when the opportunity arises, I go through my hubby's phone. I tell myself I won't find anything and I'lll better.
So yesterday I do this. I see he had messaged an old friend. An old single lady friend. One I've never met. "Haha. You'll have to forgive me" it says. Look around FB for a reference. None to be found. I check later on in the day. He deleted it.
So yes, I did this to myself by being so nosey, paranoid and intrusive. What do I do, how do I bring this up because I'm going to have to. But if it was nothing, he wouldn't have deleted it...correct?
I shouldn't do it but I can't help myself. Every great once in awhile, when the opportunity arises, I go through my hubby's phone. I tell myself I won't find anything and I'lll better.
So yesterday I do this. I see he had messaged an old friend. An old single lady friend. One I've never met. "Haha. You'll have to forgive me" it says. Look around FB for a reference. None to be found. I check later on in the day. He deleted it.
So yes, I did this to myself by being so nosey, paranoid and intrusive. What do I do, how do I bring this up because I'm going to have to. But if it was nothing, he wouldn't have deleted it...correct?
Re: How Do I Confront Hubby on this
Keep checking to see if anything else pops up & confront him with better evidence. Take screen shots. Confront him about it with ss and tell him to stop deleting messages. If he can't follow through, he's a guilty man.