I just found out that my BIL and his boyfriend were mugged and beat up after they were leaving a Britney Spears concert in NJ. They think that they were targeted because they are gay. Daniel (his boyfriend) has a crushed jaw.... he is the nicest person in the whole world... this is crazy!! I am so upset for them right now.
I am at a loss of what I should do. They live in NJ and we see each other 1-2 times per year so it is not like we are exactly close so I am not going to call them... but I would like to do something. Money is tight so I can't spend too much money. I am unsure if Daniel has med. insurance or not... I know that Josh doesn't. I was going to send them $20 with an explanation that it is what I would have spent on flowers but would rather give them the $ but didn't know it that was tacky... and also that it isn't that much.
Any advice and prayers are appreciated.
Here is the story:
http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/nationworld/2008876289_appossiblebiasattack.html
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Re: BIL and boyfriend were mugged at a Britney concert.....
That's terrible!! I will keep them in my thoughts.
That's horrible.
Instead of sending them money, is there anyway you could send them a meal? A gift card from somewhere, or call a restaurant local to them and have it delivered? This way you're doing something to help, not spending a lot of $$, and not just sending cash.
What a terrible thing to happen! They will be in my thoughts.
I agree with the pp's about the gift card.
That is just awful. They are in my prayers.
I would do the GC like everyone else said.
That is horrible. I'm glad that they didn't suffer more severe injuries, but his BF's injuries certainly sound painful. I hope they're able to find the group members who did this.
I agree with the GC--nice of you to want to do something!?
I will keep them in my prayers.
Having a meal delivered would be a great idea.