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Crying my eyes out...

My mom called me last night to tell me that their oldest dog, Mac, has cancer. Crying  We got Mac when I was in 4th grade.  He's 15 years old, and has lived a long, spoiled, awesome life, but it doesn't make it any easier.  The vet said he's having trouble breathing since the mass is on his lungs.  My mom said if he's in pain, she doesn't want him suffering, so they're probably going to take him to be put to sleep next week sometime.  I cried and cried and cried.  I'm going home tomorrow to say goodbye to him.  He's my Mac Attack, I'm so upset.  :(   Their other dog, Bonnie, is upset too.  Mom said she's been standing guard of him since they brought him home from the vet.  She lays by his side and won't leave him. 

This is so, so hard.

Re: Crying my eyes out...

  • I'm so sorry!! It is sooo hard to lose a pet, especially when they've been a part of your life for so long. You are definitely in my prayers during this difficult time.
  • I'm so sorry to hear about Mac. I'll be thinking about you and your family!
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  • I'm so sorry!  I'm glad you'll have a chance to say goodbye.  Losing a pet is so hard, I'll keep you in my thoughts.
  • I'm so sorry.  Saying goodbye is so hard.  I still get teary-eyed thinking about when I had to say goodbye to my parents previous newfie.  I'm sure it will lift his spirits to see you though. 
  • I'm so sorry.  I've had to put 3 dogs down in my lifetime and it is so incredibly hard.  Midnight is 10 and some times just thinking that he may not be around someday brings me to tears.  (hugs) to you.
  • I'm sorry.  I agree with pp that losing a pet is so difficult.  I'll be thinking of you!
  • I am so sorry.... before I had a dog I couldn't figure out why people got so upset when their dog got sick.  Now that I have Molson I couldn't even imagine... again I am so sorry!
  • That is so sad! I'm sorry!
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  • So sad! I am very sorry to hear about Max. You are in my thoughts.
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  • I'm so sorry.  Hugs!
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  • I am so sorry.
    I lost my dog a couple years ago and I think about him from time to time.
    I will keep you in my thoughts, I know it's tough having a pet around so long.


  • I'm so sorry, this is such a hard thing to go through. Hugs!
  • I am so sorry. I was young enough when my 1st dog passed that I don't recall now most of it, but I can't even begin to imagine my dogs in that situation... my thoughts are with you.
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  • I am so sorry to hear about your dog.  You're right...it does not make it easier when they are older and had this wonderful fantastic life.

    Big hugs to you and I will keep you in my prayers.

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  • i am so sorry.  this is the worst decision to make ...

    my mother.in.law sent this to me after i had to put my cat down 2 days before my wedding.  i hope you find some solace in it ...

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    If it should be....
    If it should be that I grow frail and weak,
    and pain should keep me from my sleep,
    then you must do what must be done,
    for we know this last battle can't be won.

    You will be sad, I understand,
    but don't let grief then stay your hand,
    for this day, more than the rest,
    your love and friendship must stand the test.

    We've had so many happy years,
    what is to come can hold no fears.
    Would you want me to suffer? So,
    when the time comes, please let me go.

    Take me where my needs they'll tend,
    only stay with me until the end,
    and hold me firm and speak to me,
    until my eyes no longer see.

    It is a kindness that you do to me,
    although my tail it's last has waved,
    from pain and suffering I have been saved.

    Do not grieve, it should be you,
    who must decide this thing to do.
    We've been so close, we two these years,
    Don't let your heart hold any tears.

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  • ps.  sorry about all the junk before the poem ... apparently it isnt there if I try to edit and there's a time limit with deleting a post ...
  • I'm so sorry.  {{hugs}}
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  • Thank you for all your support, girls. *hugs*

     I made it back to NJ over the weekend to say bye to my Mac.  He was just so good.  He just laid there and let me pet him all weekend. 

     

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