We are loosing this one.

Ginlyn0 · April 2009

I found out yesterday that based on lab work that we are loosing our little bean. I now have to wait for nature to take it's course. I am so upset right now. I don't know how I can face seeing my brother's girlfriend (she and I were due 1 day apart). I have to see her progress knowing that I would have been where she is. This is my first loss. I think it would be easier if I didn't have someone so close that was due around the same time.

MRSOZUNA2B · April 2009

I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

piercetobe · April 2009

I'm sorry. I know how hard it is. Hugs.

prlmrg08 · April 2009

I am so sorry! (((hugs)))

aeroluv327 · April 2009

I'm so sorry.

.happy.as.just.kim. · April 2009

I am so sorry to hear that. I can only imagine how hard that must be. I'll keep you in my prayers. I know there is a pg loss board on the bump that has helped several girls thru their m/c's as well, and might be a helpful support source.?

Mrs.MauiBride24 · April 2009

I'm so sorry. ?:( ?Take care of yourself.

dondraandluis · April 2009

I'm so sorry! You will be in my prayers. The miscarriage/pregnancy board is a good board for advice, questions, or just someone to talk to. I know what you mean about having someone close to where you should be/were. I have a co-worker that is due around the time I should be and my SIL who is a couple of weeks ahead.

Kim&Jim · April 2009

I am so sorry. I can't imagine what you are going through. I think it's especially sad given the situation with your bro's girlfriend.

char-char · April 2009

I am SO sorry to hear of your loss. Unfortunately, I, too can relate from personal experience and know how difficult it can be especially when you are seemingly surrounded by others experiencing healthy pregnancies and watching them go through every milestone that you should yourself be experiencing. It's very difficult, but for me personally, I have really made an active effort to try not to be bitter or hurt by these things as they are totally unrelated to my personal loss and instead, I have really tried to channel some of my grieving, my fears and my thoughts of frustration into focusing on my current blessings, my faith and looking forward to becoming a mother again when it is my time. I have definitely found a great deal of comfort and support from the other ladies on the Miscarriage / PL board and now on the TTCAL board as well. When you are ready, I would highly recommend spending some time there as the support of others going through the same experiences has been crucial in helping me throughout the grieving process. Again, I am so very sorry for your loss and will be thinking of you and your beautiful family.

travelingkris · April 2009

I am aching for you... I am so sorry, and ditto the pp's about the PL boards. They helped me through a very sad part of my life.... Reach out, when you're ready

Please feel free to email me as well, kb0325@hotmail.com

kekis · April 2009

I'm sorry for your loss. It's completely unfair for anyone to lose a baby. Ditto pp on the PL board. They will be your biggest source of understanding right now because you'll find that nobody IRL gets it like you need them to. You will get through this in time. It will suck along the way, but I promise you will. I wouldn't tell you that if I knew it wasn't true.