April 2009 Weddings
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Re: Flame Free

  • i've secretly been depressed since the wedding/honeymoon...i have nothing to look forward to anymore :(
  • I am in dire need of a creative outlet!  It's been hard to not have anything to create since the wedding.  Flower beds done...may resort to making wedding scrapbook.
  • I'm now a brunette and don't know what I think about it.  I feel sexier/sassier, but I'm surprised when I see myself in the mirror!  The old Darci had a blonde bob... this new wife version of me is a different person in some unexpected ways.

    Don't know if it's flameworthy or just a confession, but it's what's on my mind.

  • Part Confession and Part Flame Free ... I don't know what to do with myself now that I am not planning a wedding ... I have free time that I don't know how to fill ... I feel like part of me is missing out on something ... Work drags out and I am constantly thinking back to when I was DIYing and planning and thinking hmmmm ... what else could I have done ...
  • I WANT MY CONTRACT!

    Oh, and my crazy uncle didn't even get us a card at the wedding.  Or sign the guest book.  That upsets me.

     

  • My stupid aunt started an argument on facebook and it pissed me off so much that I want to "un friend" her. But I know I will just be slithering down to her immature level!  Super Angry

    Who starts a fight with their pregnant niece anyways!  

    Here is the real flameworthy part-I really want to kick her off the shower invite list, but don't want to sacrifice a gift for my baby bc of one fight! My baby deserves better! Angel

     

  • im not so much depressed about the wedding being over but more about both of my sisters are knocked up and im not... i know we cant right now and its not the time but we would take so much better care of one of those babies than my (one) sister would ...

    and i really want my pro pictures back!

  • Saturday night H and I got in a mini argument because of him drinking too much that night and then last night I drank too much... I hate being a hipocrit... at least we were drinking too much together last night Confused
  • I don't know if I have anything real flameworthy. I'm actually a little relieved that the wedding is over. It's time to have some relaxing. And I really wish I could just let my new flower beds at the new house just go wild. I don't have the knowledge or motivation to go out and clean them up, pull weeds, till it, and plant new things. Please don't make me do it.
    My Ovulation Chart image BFP #1 8/25/12 EDD 4/28/13 Blighted Ovum, D&C 9/20/12 at 8w6d. I'll always remember the first one. My baby Grace. BFP #2 12/26/12 EDD 9/5/13 Come on, rainbow baby!
  • Sometimes when I read other people's flame worthy post, I want to flame them so bad, that I can't come up with anything flame worthy.  Stick out tongue
  • Todd and I had our first big fight already.  Over flucking light switches and dishes.  Seriusly it hasnt even been 2 weeks.  Who fights that bad over such stupid things?  I am really upset.  We have been together for 10 flucking years.  I was SOOOO flucking happy until last night.  Couldn't he have given me a month before starting shyt?  If I dont get a job soon this marriage is not gonna work.  We have been through SOOO much together and me losing my job has by FAR been the worse.  Now that I dont have the wedding as an excuse its even worse.  He expects me to be his maid b/c I am not working.  You ladies know me - it AINT GONNA HAPPEN!!!!  We made up before we went to bed last night but I am still fuming.
  • imageAJ0409:
    Sometimes when I read other people's flame worthy post, I want to flame them so bad, that I can't come up with anything flame worthy.  Stick out tongue
    You stole my post!
  • I'm also feeling a slight void since the wedding... I just want to get started on another project.  My job isn't challenging enough and I need to get some of my creativity out somewhere.

    My next project will be building a house- but we won't start construction until January.  Once we meet with the builder and finalize plans I will have things to work on but in the interim I have nothing to work on... and when I have nothing to work on I tend to just sit around a lot and veg (which is the last thing I need to be doing... I did not lose 20lbs before the wedding to then put it right back on after!.... I have 10 more to lose and am not getting any closer to my goal in my current state of mind)

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  • I'm being a bit of a PW because I like seeing my post count and points go up, even if they don't mean anything.
    My Ovulation Chart image BFP #1 8/25/12 EDD 4/28/13 Blighted Ovum, D&C 9/20/12 at 8w6d. I'll always remember the first one. My baby Grace. BFP #2 12/26/12 EDD 9/5/13 Come on, rainbow baby!
  • I haven't worked out once since two days before the wedding (for me, that is super flammable).

    I haven't yet gotten bored post-wedding.  I'm still in that couple week slump where I can barely get myself off the couch.  I still haven't done laundry since before the honeymoon.  I am a little sad that its our first free weekend and we have no plans.  Before the wedding everyone wanted to see us!

  • I cried at work yesterday because of my new schedule.

  • Like some of you ladies I'm feeling the post wedding void.  I also think it was so nice to have two weeks alone with my new hubby and now that we're back into everyday life I feel like we're disconnected somehow.  I keep looking at pictures of the wedding wanting to do it all over again.

    My brother said at the wedding "There are two times in your life where all of the people you love the most are in the same room.  Your wedding and your funeral."  I keep thinking about that and it makes me sad.  It was so good to see everyone, and my friends that live far away, but it made me miss them so much more!

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  • As far as the wedding goes, the only thing that bugs me is what Mia said, it's the fact that I won't have all my friends adn family around like that ever again most likely. That makes me very sad.

    As for a FF post - I keep hoping peopel who never sent anything will because there are more things I want!

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