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UGH!!!
wow my MIL has been asking me today about when r we going to have kids. And she thinks it is time.
I feel like as soon as we got married everyone started asking when will we have kids. Did you have this also?
I dont mind being asked, and i do want to, but i feel like i am not ready. I wonder if you are ever ready lol.
Rita
Re: UGH!!!
no i dont mind it, its ok.
Just did not expect it.
Welcome to the other suide! We get this all the time too. My mom really wants to have grandchildren soon but she doesn't pressure me per se. I just know she'd be thrilled if it was soon
. I'm planning to get pregnant at least 3 years from now.
my MIL has not asked... but partly because her other son's wife is pregnant, and due in july... so she is going to get her grandkid-fix
she is super excited, and i'm glad because we are NOT ready whatsoever.
my mother is the one that wants us to start soon... and my grandparents?? they are dying for us to have a baby!!! lol!!!
but we shall see. we don't really have a set time to start trying... i guess we will see where life takes us
Next time, tell her, "we aren't ready right now, but we sure are having fun practicing!" That should get her off your back for some time.
My mom has been pestering me since before the wedding! Next month it will be 4 yrs since we wed... and the question comes up at least once a week from different people. Just something you need to deal with... and remember not to push the question on to others!
"If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane" -- Jimmy Buffett
Dont stress it. As you can see we ALL get asked on a weekly basis.
I got a little upset last night because a cousin of mine who is very outspoken kind of pestered me about it on facebook. I told her we are still young and we want to enjoy and party and go to all the friends weddings we have this year and drink and stay out late and her response was that Im a vieja and that if we dont have kids soon were going to be old parents. I kind of took it personal and didnt like the way it came out.
then i am not alone. You know even if i am a little selfish i think it is ok.
you know i have a little sister and i went through everything not sleeping and all that fun stuff, and i just feel i know how hard it is. And plus this was my sister that if i was tired i could just tell my mom.