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holy crap. i don't know what to do.
if any of you were reading my blog last summer, you'll know my story in regards to bio-dad, who i haven't seen since the teen was <1.
in a nutshell, his sister found me and after much debate, i decided to go and visit her before she left to move out of state. during the visit, i actually spoke to bio-dad on the phone, who'd been living in the homeland for several years. it was so weird, and all he said about the long period of time that we were out of touch was "sorry, anak (daughter), we've been really busy."
um, so busy that you couldn't let your daughter know that you were MOVING OUT OF THE FREAKING COUNTRY PERMANENTLY?
i just got a facebook e-mail from his wife (who was always very nice). she says they're in the LBC and are here for another week before heading back. i don't know if that means they're just visiting, or are coming back stateside after the trip.
i'm completely conflicted. do i go visit? i got over being left behind and neglected by him a long time ago, but i'm really torn about going to see him.
WWYD?
Re: holy crap. i don't know what to do.
I dont know dude. That's a tough one.
My gut would say to go and try to see him. I think if you don't, you may end up regretting it. You know?
This.
"They" say we regret more the things we didn't do than the things we did.
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This. But I'd also add to do what makes you feel good / right. Forget other people's feelings.?
-- selfish Winnie?
I agree with this.