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Opinions on MIL woes

So my MIL just emailed the H asking if her and step FIL could take us out to dinner for our anniversary on June 5th.  Our real anniversary is June 6th.

I just assumed that the H and I would celebrate together alone.  Is it weird that she wants to take us out to dinner and is it awful of me to not want to go?

My thoughts were our anniversary our celebration. 

Re: Opinions on MIL woes

  • I would feel the same way. ?There is no way in hell I'd want to go out to celebrate my anniversary, with my God-awful MIL. ?Thankfully, she's in Milwaukee, WI.!?

    ?It's not bad of you not wanting to go - that's something you celebrate with you husband, not your MIL.

  • I would probably tell my MIL that I appreciate her gesture, but H and I already had plans for the weekend for just the two of us and suggest maybe getting together the next weekend for dinner.
  • I think that is sweet of her to want to tae you two out for your aniversary, however, if you want to do something alone with your H that night then do that and go to dinner with them another time. Maybe go the Monday after or Thursday before. It's not unreasonable to want to be alone on your special day.
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • are you sure we don't share a MIL???  LOL  I was going through this for our 1 year!  WTF are they thinking??  Don't do it!  Suggest the following weekend instead!  At least she gave you a few week notice...mine called him the night of wanting us to stop by..ummm....NO!!
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