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oh my god!!!
My little sister is pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She just came to my fiancee's gym with my mom..pulled me outside and told me.....she not exactly little she's 25 and getting engaged but I'm shocked...floored...don't know what to say!!!!
I'm gonna be an aunt!!! My little sister is due a month after my wedding!!!
Re: oh my god!!!
Sorry I'm loosing it...she IS engaged
This was so not planned in any way...I'm so shocked and over whelmed and I cried...I can't belive she's pregnant...I don't know if you remember my story but we were all a little iffy about her fiancee....he's a nice kid but now what we thought my sister would end up with
I'm a little upset b/c I'm in baby craving mode and to find out my sister is pregnant upset me and I don't even know exactly why. I'm excited to be an aunt but just so overwhelmed and shocked. She was nervous to tell me b/c the due date is gonna fall around the wedding but I could care less...I just told her we'll get her a bigger dress...I just hope she's still able to stand up there with me.
I must of said Wow like 600 times..so Wow again
wow Kris!!!
Congrats to you and your family! ?And a happy and healthy 9 mo to your sister!
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Wow again! Congrats! Wishing your sis a H&H 9 months
How is she doing?
Jamie...she literally walked in 2 minutes after you left the gym!!
I haven't slept all night I feel like I have to do things....yeah she's 25 but she's my baby sister and I've always been the one to direct her and she's an immature 25. We figured her estimate due date to be the day before my wedding which makes me so sad b/c the thought of her not being there breaks my heart and she's scared about the fact that what if I'm on my honeymoon when she goes into labor b/c she wants me with her...uggh....I hope she goes a little longer
There is way too much going on right now in our family and this is just a big WOW!! We all don't believe the whole "it was an accident thing" but what can you do...Our big concern was b/c my sisters fiancee is one a VERY big bull sh*tter to the extreme and two very competative and is always in competition with my brother and I on who is gonna do what first or better which we don't understand (he keeps making remarks to my brother that he'll have a house before them)....he always commented on how he couldn't wait for my brothers wedding to be done and then mine so the focus could be on them and not us.....he came from a different family and he for some reason thinks that my parents will like him better then my fiancee or my brothers wife if he does more, makes more, gives them more. My sisters just naive and lives in fairy tale land and believes whatever he says but thats always how she's been.
Thanks for the well wishes and that's the big concern (her health and the babies)
Wow! I understand the wave of emotions you're experiencing. You want to be happy for her, which you are, but the circumstances could be better.
Hang in there!
Sorry I missed the drama last night... stupid being sick!
I think I know exactly how you're feeling. Our original wedding date was supposed to be Jan 31 and then my younger sister announced that they were pregnant and due Jan 26. She was my MOH and I had no other bridal party besides her, and I couldn't even imagine her not standing by my side. So we changed our date and bumped it up to Nov. Not exactly an option for you, but we really didn't have much planned or set in stone at that point so it worked out OK. I was very jealous when they announced it. All of our lives she always said she wasn't having kids, and then all of a sudden she was pregnant, right when I was wanting another one so badly. It kind of sucked and I had my immature moments throughout the wedding planning where I was so selfish and just wanted the focus to be on me already. It's all worth it now, though, because my nephew is adorable and I love him to pieces.
Hopefully her FI will grow up and stop being a bullshitter and do what's best for your sis and the baby and not what he thinks will "make him look good". H&H 9 months to her.
Ditto what Erin said.
Oh wow, I am sure that was some very shocking news for you kristen!
But a H&H 9 months to your sister and hopefully the FI learns to grow up!
Kristylove: Thats exactly what I'm feeling!! I really don't care about her being pregnant during my wedding by it really SUCKS that she may not be there and that I may miss her giving birth....I'm being so emotional about it and I hate it. I'm also upset b/c when she got engaged we didn't get the whole "Yay, your enaged" moment it was more like "Oh, wow really" and I missed having that with my sister and now again I didn't get that moment with her.....Everythings been so rushed and out of the blue. I'm really excited to be an aunt and godmother but it's just all too much right now
And like you said I feel like I want to be selfish and be like "Hey this is my turn" but when I really think about it I get over it b/c it's about me and my fiancee getting married and nothing else...again it just stinks, it's one thing if she was pregnant at the wedding but she's due the day before!!!