March 2008 Weddings
Emily and Dan 03-15-2008
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Lost my MOH/BFF over wedding
Ok,
So when the wedding rolled around we had paid $325 for her dress ( which was less than the regular BM's dresses). So We recieved $200 at the time of the wedding. We told her pay us back as you can. So four months later we had told her that since we will be in the O.C areas if she could buy one of our disneyland tickets for us, that would cost $90. So instead of paying us the full $125 she would only have to pay $90.
I get a text the other day saying that is isn't going to pay us back and that she already payed us back support for the wedding! Meanwhile she was never involved in the wedding and complained about wearing her dress the whole time. She also is claiming that she flew out three times for our wedding. ( Two of them we paid ourselves just to have her be apart of it!) Then she goes on to tell me maybe if I were a better friend those two years, she would have helped more. So is is contradicting her self.
Also she was crying in the bathroom the whole reception and then in the shuttle from our venue to the hotel. So that was soo unfair for me to deal with the night of my wedding.
Ahh I can't believe people sometimes!
Soory this is long but needed to vent
So when the wedding rolled around we had paid $325 for her dress ( which was less than the regular BM's dresses). So We recieved $200 at the time of the wedding. We told her pay us back as you can. So four months later we had told her that since we will be in the O.C areas if she could buy one of our disneyland tickets for us, that would cost $90. So instead of paying us the full $125 she would only have to pay $90.
I get a text the other day saying that is isn't going to pay us back and that she already payed us back support for the wedding! Meanwhile she was never involved in the wedding and complained about wearing her dress the whole time. She also is claiming that she flew out three times for our wedding. ( Two of them we paid ourselves just to have her be apart of it!) Then she goes on to tell me maybe if I were a better friend those two years, she would have helped more. So is is contradicting her self.
Also she was crying in the bathroom the whole reception and then in the shuttle from our venue to the hotel. So that was soo unfair for me to deal with the night of my wedding.
Ahh I can't believe people sometimes!
Soory this is long but needed to vent
Emily and Dan 03-15-2008
Re: Lost my MOH/BFF over wedding
I am sorry that you are having to deal with this. It's hard to believe just how some people can act and never take any responsibility themselves and blame others. Sounds like she had problems before the wedding.
You can be the best of friend to someone and they never do it in return. Believe me I know...I still haven't talked to my supposenly best friend after she decided not to show up to my wedding. Basically....I haven't talked to her for 3 months.
Anyways....do you think this is something that you two could talk out? It was pretty shady about how she texted this all to you. If you want to be friends you may just have to try talking to her. I don't think she will give you your money back though. I guess it just depends how much damage has been done.
Hope all goes well