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What do you/are you planning to use for birth control? I was on the pill and then the NuvaRing for a very long time, and while it's very convenient, I would prefer not to use hormones anymore.
Does that leave us with just condoms and charting? Ugh...
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I didn't want to use hormones either. Or condoms. So we tried pulling out... hahahaha.... ya didn't work so well :P
I am going on somthing this time around for sure. It sucks that I have to get my hormones screwed with, but it's better then having another baby.
My OB prescribed me the mini/micro pill b/c she said it's ok while breastfeeding, but I didn't feel comfortable taking hormones while breastfeeding anyhow.
We're currently using pull&pray plus spermicide.
Not 100% reliable, but we hopefully don't do it enough to get pregnant. That and I hope that my breastfeeding is keeping my ovulation at bay for now. I haven't had a period yet.
EDIT: I realized this was a stupid statement: "but we hopefully don't do it enough to get pregnant"
Duh I realize it only takes once, but I'm thinking, how many times a cycle do we actually do it, plus I'm pretty sure I'm not having"cycles" right now. But it's a gamble
I was on the mini/micro pill for a while, even though they said it did not do anything to the milk supply, I was worried and stopped taking it, we also did the pull and pray. As of late, we are TTC so we are not doing anything.
NAT: You can still ovulate I think when you are breastfeeding without getting a cycle, that is how so many girls end up preggers again, but I could be totally out in left field with that one.
Abstinence. LOL
We actually use condoms...but honestly.....we've only maybe done it 10 times in 10 months....maybe 15 (but that would be a stretch), so pretty much it has been abstinence....we've both been WAY too tired. My period hasn't come back yet, but I think I may be ovulating again....
LMAO!!!! So true!!!!
I forgot to mention in my response:
Have baby that gets up 5-6 times a night until she is 9 months old....hence have DH sleep in spare bedroom in the basement 4 nights a week....
lol! This sounds like the perfect method for me!
Mom, why are you washing my feed in the sink?!
We're same at Nat, withdrawal along with spermicide foam you can buy at the drugstore. I'm never going back on the pill, going off of it made my system all wacky. We also don't have sex a whole lot, but I also watch my cervical mucous too to know when it's probably not the best time.
Condoms are irritating to my skin so we don't really use them. Since I've got a semi- period (it's shorter than it was pre-baby so I think the hormones and BFing are still making it a bit off) I can tell when it's not a good time in my cycle.
Of course, nothing but abstinence is 100% effective. But it seems to work. If I get pregnant again, it wouldn't be a huge deal, but it's not like we're trying to go out of our way to have another baby.
Once we have our 2nd child, we'll be done, so I've gotta convince hubby to get the whole snip snip..but he's really not into it yet. ha ha..
What is the Creighton model and how does it work?
~Katie~
Oh, yes, that approach works, too! (For several months, my husband had to sleep in the guest room with the baby - and, once he was moved to his crib, the monitor - because I couldn't sleep *at all* if I could hear the baby. I'm hoping to be less freaked out this time around, but I doubt I'll pull it off.)
I use the charting method for breastfeeding, but I may try the method Blondie is using if I can find somewhere to learn it here.
~Katie~