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Who would think this is OKAY?
My friend and co-worker who knows about our infertilty struggles, and knows how long we have been trying, is pregnant with #2. It was rough enough to deal with her announcement. But seriously! She showed me 2, yes 2 of her positive pee sticks. I said rudely, the second time around, "Wow, I've never seen that before!" I hope she got the point, I am not the most straight-forward person. But seriously wouldn't you think that would be a tad bit insensitive?
Maybe I'm being a little over-dramatic about the whole thing, but it really made me want to cry.
Okay, my vent is done.
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Re: Who would think this is OKAY?
After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this. I can kind of understand where you are coming from. I didn't even show my DH the pregnancy tests I took.
I imagine things really suck right now but I have a feeling you will be getting your turn real soon.
Infertile..... excited....
Either way.... EWWWW!!!!!
You shouldn't be "flashing" your pee sticks around! GROSSS!!!
(Sorry about it, either way)
I'm sorry to hear you had to deal with. I am sure that was hard!
((hugs))
This.
I agree with Kim, hopefully that was it. It sucks though that she forgot to be sensitive to you.
Oh that sucks. She was probably just excited, and probably didn't realize how much it would hurt. But I totally understand why you would be upset.
It is a little weird/gross to show off the pee sticks.