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I just need to get this out....

okay everything with my disability STILL not going through has me and K going through HE!!.  Supposedly when my lawyer called last week they are going to be coming back with a settlement number but that started a month ago now and still nothing. 

K took over the bills about 3 months ago because I couldn't handle the stress of it, it had me where I wasn't sleeping because I was so stressed.  I told him the only thing was we HAD to make sure the rent got paid to my dad on the 15th of the month....well the 15th is Monday and we have about 1/2 of it, we'll have it on Friday when K gets paid again, but they have been so great to us that I really don't want to tell them that we won't have it until Friday.  So we got in a HUGE fight before he went to work.  I feel horrible, I've been in tears all morning, as of now I'm taking the bills back over, he is working his a$$ off and I know this, he feels horrible because although he works as much as he can the bills aren't all getting paid and I feel like CRAP because I feel like this is all my fault.  (Which he tells me all the time it's not because it's not like I asked to get this horrible disease.) But still....

UGH!  I am just about at the end of my rope and I don't know what to do!  No replies really needed just needed to vent!

Re: I just need to get this out....

  • Oh Crystal I'm so sorry.  I don't understand why it has to be so hard for you to get your disability.  That system is so flawed its ridiculous.  I'll keep praying for you!
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  • Thanks Graves! 
  • I'm so sorry Crystal! That sounds very stressful.  I hope that you are able to figure everything out and things don't keep you so stressed out.  That can't be good for your health.  Lots of hugs!!!!
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  • I'm so sorry you are still going through this Crystal. (HUGS)
  • Thanks ladies.  I just needed an ear and some hugs.  I am feeling much better now, just needed it to get out!  We will be okay, I have to just keep that in mind and keep saying it!
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