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FIL...WWYT?
So, I had drinks with my ex-sil the other night (she was married to DH's bro - they divorced 2 years ago). We always have a good chuckle reminiscing, and teasing, and making fun of my ILs, they're a funny couple. So, she tells me that a few weeks ago, she was having a late business lunch at a restaurant in the other end of town...and on the way out she spotted my FIL having lunch with a woman she didn't recognize. She watched for a minute and she said they were sitting in one of those round booths, but were sitting practically right next to one another, laughing, and drinking wine! WTF?! She said she scurried out before he could see her, but she said it's been bothering her ever since. She's not a spiteful person, and actually has a great relationship with them still, so I don't think she's trying to cause trouble. Is it me, or is what she saw totally effed up?
Re: FIL...WWYT?
gah!
I don't know what I would think!
Is he in sales or in some kind of job where he has to woo customers? My dad has to wine and dine lots of people for his job, and I bet people could question it if they saw him out.
Uh oh....
I think it's effed up too... but I wouldn't say anything. I mean what if ex-SIL was mistaken and it wasn't him? or could easily be a misunderstanding.
yikes though!
That's a tough spot... I don't know how I would handle it.. there's the coy "ex-SIL saw you at x restaurant the other week, did you like it? we're thinking of going there" just to gauge his reaction.. but me, I doubt I would say anything, too afraid of what I might find out..
It's def a weird situation..
No offence and I hope this isn?t the case but a couple doesn?t need to be having a BAD marriage or even a rocky one to cheat. I?ve known some couples who everyone thoughts were solid and he or she were cheating. Why? I still wonder!
What I would do [because I?m a brat] is mention that you had drinks with ex-SIL and she recommended this GREAT restaurant that she went to ?last Tuesday??and see if he gives off a reaction.
GL ? this is a sucky situation to be in!!